Seriously fed up

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Originally Posted by Minty

It's hard to suggest things if you're not good at socializing. Hmm, do you still go to college/school? Maybe trying to make more/new friends there would help? :)

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I'm not at college at the moment but I've applied and I'm waiting to hear from them for the interview, if I get one. So, I'm hoping I'll get some friends there.

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Originally Posted by SyrupyMonkey

As I say to many people, you have a whole life a head of you, sometimes it's hard to make new friends, I understand; perhaps ring some school friends or whatever and organise a day out? Even if it's just up town or something.
Good luck

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Originally Posted by inexorably

try gettin into a sport? joining a team? its not boring and you meet people:D

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Thanks for those, I'll try 'ems ;)

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Originally Posted by vampirism

I'm not at college at the moment but I've applied and I'm waiting to hear from them for the interview, if I get one. So, I'm hoping I'll get some friends there.

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Good look with the interview if you get it :)

I used to be exactly like that, i joined a sports club and just went out as much as i could, for example shopping, cinemas. So i know how you feel and about your girlfriend, it shouldn't be her deciding it all, so i would have a chat with her and see if you can sort it out, and if not then you know she is not the one for you and you have to move on with your life, plus i hope i understood correct this is a e-dating gf? Well maybe if you wern't with her you wouldn't be online so much.

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Originally Posted by -Undiscovered

I used to be exactly like that, i joined a sports club and just went out as much as i could, for example shopping, cinemas. So i know how you feel and about your girlfriend, it shouldn't be her deciding it all, so i would have a chat with her and see if you can sort it out, and if not then you know she is not the one for you and you have to move on with your life, plus i hope i understood correct this is a e-dating gf? Well maybe if you wern't with her you wouldn't be online so much.

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For two years, it was e-dating but we meet up in november last year and we've meet up a few times since them and stuff so it's more of a LDR.

LDR?

And then surely that makes you be online so much?

elaborating on my other post,
Check on google for groups in your area, or even ask freinds.. Theres ones that could be your hobbies, or just youth groups or even groups for gay and bi people if you swing that way lol.

and as for the girlfreind, Tell her to make sure she doesnt plan anything for that day, tell her how you feel.

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Originally Posted by -Undiscovered

LDR?

And then surely that makes you be online so much?

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LDR is long distance relationship lol. And, I guess in some way it does.

My girlfriend knows how i feel about it and stuff, but I'll do that. :)

get in touch with old friends, make plans to go out etcetc, from there you'll meet new friends, and generally over time you'll start becoming more socialable. you just really need to go out there and get on with life, once you do you'll feel so much better in life and in yourself, trust me. also letting someone else control your life isn't the best of things to do, it's your life and although she may be your girlfriend it's down to you what you do, don't let her hold you back.

If she knows how you feel, It doesnt sound like she cares,
You could try staying with her for a few nights too..

I can completly emphasize with you, like some of the friends I've made 'Online' have like gone off or we seem to never talk anymore.. =[