Is this wierd/not normal?

i dont bother either, girls my age, well in my class seem just a bit immature anyway to bother.

Wait until you find someone, then you're opinion will change.
But it's not weird, it might just be the fact that you're young.

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Originally Posted by Stacey.

Wait until you find someone, then you're opinion will change.
But it's not weird, it might just be the fact that you're young.

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i had, and it hasnt changed lol. lasts a week, u dont really do 'much'. oh wow.

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Originally Posted by H

LOL right....... i think you're just looking at it wrong. You don't go INTO relationship, you fall for someone. You're only 14 you probably haven't found someone you really like yet to want a relationship with.

and yeah you're most likely to get hurt but with good comes bad and you learn a lot for the next time round. Also you gotta keep in mind that every new relationship that person could be 'the one' so don't write off anything just yet!

LAST POINT doesn't matter how old you are, mega jealousy when you're teenage which is a big reason why it never works but it can still work. You need to be more optimistic instead of pessimistic about it all!!!!!!!!!!!!

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My mates mum and dad are in their 40s now and they started going out when they were 14 (y)

In my opinion, i think you should date when your younger because it prepares you for the future. Saying that, i think its better to be single because you can get off/cop off with whoever you want on a drunken night out etc.

Its not wierd, many people share your view.
But you probably haven't found someone you like yet
and I know what you mean by some teenage couples only together for the sake of it. When you find someone you really like, you'll probably change your mind.

Firstly, good for you for not in a sence 'using' girls just for the sake of having a girlfriend ! :P
Teenage years are for exploring relationships and careers etc.
But don't feel you need to rush into things.
You decide when you want to have a relationship.
Save it for the special one ;)

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Originally Posted by :Edzy

My mates mum and dad are in their 40s now and they started going out when they were 14 (y)

In my opinion, i think you should date when your younger because it prepares you for the future. Saying that, i think its better to be single because you can get off/cop off with whoever you want on a drunken night out etc.

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HEY, I wasn't saying you COULDN'T find someone, I was in love at 14. I was just saying he shouldn't expect to have found someone yet as he is still young he has his whole life to find someone. I know plenty of teenage sweethearts! My god parents got together when they were 14 & 16 they're still together happily married.

'get off/cop off with whoever you want on a drunken night out' LOL what a brilliant example you're setting there!!!!! ITS ILLEGAL FOR 14 YEAR OLDS TO DRINK!! let alone what else you were implying hahaha

better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all.