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As much as its heartbreaking, it sounds like you're just having a crush which will pass away in time. It's best if you just let love takes its full course and if its meant to be, its meant to be. :)
I've just noticed... This thread is all staff. LOL.
EDIT: DAMNIT PURE YOU BROKE THE CHAIN.
If someone's in a stable relationship already then you should let them stay that way. If, for example, you broke this lad and his girlfriend up, he would probably be too heartbroken to think about going out with you.
About your friend having feelings for the lad: If you told her that you liked the boy, see if she tries not to like him, if she doesn't, then go ahead. She'll probably steal a guy off you so why can't you do it to her..?