Abusive Boyfriend?

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Originally Posted by Minstrels

I can't see any post in here which is condoning violence, we're simply saying that if she wants to carry on with the relationship even if he's hitting her then it's up to her.

How am I being a comedian? If she wants to live that way then let her, he wont be able to change her and will most probably lose her as a mate because she'll get pissed off with him bugging her?

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i was talking about the "is it right to hit a woman" thread :S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S

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Originally Posted by buttons

i was talking about the "is it right to hit a woman" thread :S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S

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Oh right, sorry my mistake.

If she leaves him, hes prob kill her

I'd beat the living day lights out of the little druggy ****wit.

if they're actually messing about laughing or woteva nd not harming each ufa its ok
but holding a knife to sum1s neck is a bit silly really

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Originally Posted by Minstrels

How am I being a comedian? If she wants to live that way then let her, he wont be able to change her and will most probably lose her as a mate because she'll get pissed off with him bugging her?

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Someone needs to go back to school, I believe I said she should live her life how she wants?

tbh, its her life and she has to make her own mistakes. her current relationship being one. she obviously knows what's going on, and if you can't talk her out of the relationship there's not much more you can do.

Why don't you just call the police when his doing drug dealing, that way he'll get arrested for a long time. They split up.

^^ Above is only if your risking it, You'll probably get killed if you get caught calling the police

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Originally Posted by buttons

wow this situation is all too familiar ....
no matter how hard you try to tell her him slapping her is wrong, she won't leave him & she'll make excuses for why he does it. Apparently guys think slapping or even hitting a girl is acceptable (check the thread on here :rolleyes:) so he maybe doesn't think it's that bad but i really doubt it. I don't think anything you say to her is gonna change her mind, tell her girl friends 'cause they'll probably be more likely to help her in this case rather than guys, she'll just think u're jealous :P

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What Jen said is right, they always seem to accept it for some reason.
She's deluded, one day she'll see sense you just need to be there for her when she does.

In all fairness and respect most guys are idiots lol i can be sometimes but there would be no way were id take it far enough to hit a woman, theres guys in my school who hit girls they think its a way of flirting i supose but you can tell the girls dont like it, no offence mate but id say your friend should dump the guy and find someone else, who acctualy cares about her and wouldnt hurt her!