k this boy srsly starting to annoy me

I used to sort of have an issue like this... and ended up not answering my phone for months. The person after me used to ring me and ask if I wanted to 'do' something and whenever I said no they sort of had a tantrum and moan down the phone...the best thing to do which I did and can be seen as sort of mean is to freeze them out of your life... only see or talk to him when totally necessary slowly you'll lose contact.

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Originally Posted by LuketheDuke

Id spike his drink with something powerful as that doesnt hurt his feelings neccessarily.

Er other than that why dont you just tell him just cos you dont like him it doesnt mean hes a bad looking kid, boost his confidence and tell him to have a bash at some other girls as your sure he'll succeed.

And for the learny thing tell him you want to concentrate and succeed and that might mean working apart for the benefit of your education. If he doesnt understand that he deserves to have his feelings pwned.

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hell no i'm not going near him when he has alcohol!! he's pervy :( all he talks about is sex aswell he makes me sickkkk n nah, he's not good looking + i'm not a good liar loooool

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Originally Posted by Wahey

Is that the same guy you told me about? :S

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yeah:(

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Originally Posted by Dan2nd

I used to sort of have an issue like this... and ended up not answering my phone for months. The person after me used to ring me and ask if I wanted to 'do' something and whenever I said no they sort of had a tantrum and moan down the phone...the best thing to do which I did and can be seen as sort of mean is to freeze them out of your life... only see or talk to him when totally necessary slowly you'll lose contact.

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the person that recently fell out with him has done just that, just totally ignored his calls/texts and walked away from him. when he started texting her i was telling him not to because it's annoying from my experience with him. i don't want to throw him out my life completely and it'd be easy to ignore him but i'd feel mean =/ i mean he had a go at me for putting him to like 8th on top friends on bebo n i'm top on his :$

i only care so much bout it now coz he ruined my whole philosophy thing so i'm pissed off, if he does anythin like that again i might just snap n he'll get the picture

Jen you're going to have to be honest, you're gonna have to do stuff in life you don't like yeah. Maybe if you tell him he'll actually realise there's something he's doing wrong :S Don't always give guys sympathy cause we sometimes like to make the other person feel their in the wrong lol. Just tell him straight, nicely if you have to but just get your message across to him :S

eugk. i can't stand stubbornness.
im not sure there's a 'nice' way to say it. i think you ought to be brutally honest. thats the only way you get through to these kinds of people. if that makes you a *****, so be it.
he'll get over it eventually.

it dont matter we fell out
basically the girl that fell out with him said she doesn't like me because i'm quiet, it's just coz i don't really know her n don't hang bout wiv em out of school so they talk bout things i don't know so fair nuf rly n she said he cant defend himself when i'm there:S. he said he didn't want to choose between us so i chose for him n said he can stay wiv dat fat ugly kiddie fiddling mess it's all gd tho now i don't need to put up with him n can be with my decent friends again, now i just need to sort my philosophy n tell him to get out my group because i don't want to talk to him. its all gd altho thts annoyed me :/

haha so you've made him think it's his choice when really it's what you wanted :P smoooth!

ye i made it out to be all his fault which it was
he just txt me. he's so gay for a "str8 guy" he said;


"if you bothered to listen i said to meet me at the snack bar and i waited and u didn't turn up THAT'S NASTY! then i went with lizzie because she's clearly a mate (she obv aint coz she fell out wiv him in the first place:S) judging by your attitude to me in the snack bar u aren't. i still wanted to be friends because i thought u were a laugh. no offence but i feel sorry for u because everyone falls out with u at school, if u keep acting the way u are u will soon have none outside aswell. please yourself but ur making me feel bad when i've done nothin wrong (except ***** about me all over his ******* bebo??) tried to be your friend but obviously you don't want to, that's the truth at the end of the day"

oh well, he finally realised n now i feel stupid :/

lmaoooo at least you've gotten rid of him!

are you sexually attracted to him

he sounds possesive

Just tell him gd u've been trying to get rid of him all along (hence the "snack bar" stand up thing).
End of the day you're right and he's just trying to convince himself that he's right.