Sellers can't leave neutral either now, Look at the link i've posted before :)
Glad it helped shaun.
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Glad you got it sorted, when buying on eBay i've had nothing but a great experience. But this is where it annoys me with eBay not allowing you to give buyers bad or neutral feedback.
I've sold quite alot on ebay in the past and you often get time wasting buyers and loads of other things, i've had worst experience with buyers than sellers. I dread to think what these 'Power Sellers' go through with being on eBay so much. It seems that without the threat of negative feedback, buyers feel they can do what they like. Obviously if they don't pay you can file a claim against them, but thats just a long drawn out process which takes a good week to complete.
If there is anyway try contact like an owner of ebay if possible..?? :S
You can use the Contact Us function on Ebay to eventually get through to emailing a staff member at ebay. But in this case i doubt it's worth it.
Am i right in thinking you didn't pay by Paypal? When you pay by PayPal, eBay automatically updates as 'Payment Sent/Received' then the seller can set it as Dispatched once it has sent. He won't give you bad feedback because he will have seen you have paid BEFORE he sent the goods, it would be silly to send the items before you paid...
The seller will have just forgotten to mark as payment received thats all. But like others have said, Sellers cannot give bad feedback to buyers.