Rough patch.

Sorry to hear you split up, time may be a great healer in this concept.

We're both okay with it ha, we're still friends. We go out almost every 2-3 days, it's normal. A bit weird but that'll go away with time.

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Originally Posted by PaulMacC

Lately me and my girl ain't been doing to well. She's been taking forever to reply and she never initiates conversation. She's stressed due to family issues and a lot of coursework is due for the both of us in the next week. She says she loves me and stuff and when we're out together we're still intimate but finding a date to go out on with her is so hard. She always says I'm so difficult to plan dates with and how she doesn't know if she is free which is fair. Anyway, any thoughts?

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Maybe it's just a bit of space she needs and not actually a split -up especially as you are still going out.
Sounds like she is pretty stressed and with all the coursework you are both going to be so busy. I would think about why you are 'difficult to plan dates with'. Maybe have a chat about any issues but make sure that each has the freedom to say what they feel without any interruption from the other until they are ready. Hard to do I know but maybe worth it as it could just be a case of 'mixed wires'. Good luck, Paul.

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Originally Posted by Catz

Maybe it's just a bit of space she needs and not actually a split -up especially as you are still going out.
Sounds like she is pretty stressed and with all the coursework you are both going to be so busy. I would think about why you are 'difficult to plan dates with'. Maybe have a chat about any issues but make sure that each has the freedom to say what they feel without any interruption from the other until they are ready. Hard to do I know but maybe worth it as it could just be a case of 'mixed wires'. Good luck, Paul.

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She is away this week on a holiday with her family in the country. She has no reception on her phone. We've already split up, but I don't know yet if it was the right decision. I'll talk to her when she gets back.

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Originally Posted by PaulMacC

She is away this week on a holiday with her family in the country. She has no reception on her phone. We've already split up, but I don't know yet if it was the right decision. I'll talk to her when she gets back.

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Sounds like a good plan to have a heart-to-heart. :)

I been there, My boyfriend was in the same spot as you,
All you gotta do is give the girl some space, let her have her time to think, and get her life situated.
because if u dont, Bad things can happen with you two, I had lots of things, happening, and i been through
things that people at my age shouldnt have went through, but i made it through , <3
Stay strong, && hope this helped(: