He said he loves me :|

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Originally Posted by buttons

yeah i'd be worried, don't want to be the man hating feminist (ok i do a bit) but I see this happen all the time!! even kiss a guy and they suddenly think they own you. they go on about psycho, clingy girls when they seem to 'fall in love' way quicker than girls do. like I say it's probably not love but thinking he owns you especially as its only 2 weeks, how did you react to his declaration and how did he react to your reaction? Kinda makes sense for a guy to fall quicker than a girl though as generally guys can just move on to the next girl whereas girls have to be choosier if we take this from an evolutionary view point. anyway I don't think there's anything at all positive from a guy telling u he loves you at 2 weeks but ive heard of people knowing someone is the one for them after the first hour or whatever but generally people keep that to themselves.. Take it as you will BUT DO NOT LEAD HIM ON (altho hell say u did anyway ok no don't listen to me

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baring in mind this guy has influenced her into losing her virginity with him. you can tell right away he had it planned all along. you cant just say ''it just happened'' after two weeks, that'd be like going into the big brother house a virgin, getting along with someone for two weeks, and then ''it just happening'' unfortunately it doesn't happen like that. he must have pushed it for it to go that way.

And also buttons is right, your probally gonna end up with someone who is very clingy, controlling and for you to worry about what he is saying you must be very uncomfortable to hear it. tell him, then tell him to get lost. what a loser.

this thread is full of two extremes lmfao

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Originally Posted by Inseriousity.

wow jen has someone ripped your heart out and stuck it in a box? :P
going to scare the poor girl half to death! Don't know much about the guy so seems a bit premature to jump to these big assumptions. he might just be a big softie!

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I've no idea what banana boat you come off from, but if anything you seem like your the guy she is talking about. LOSER.

But I do like him :/ He is the best thing that has happened to me in a while. I'm just scared it's going too quick that's all. He hasn't done anything wrong, I'm not going to leave him for caring for me :/

just let him know that you care but would feel more comfortable taking things a bit slower and just having fun so to speak (the relationship fun of course).

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Originally Posted by Conspiracy.

But I do like him :/ He is the best thing that has happened to me in a while. I'm just scared it's going too quick that's all. He hasn't done anything wrong, I'm not going to leave him for caring for me :/

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how long have u known him since before going out this 2 weeks? how long were you close before being officially together? I guess it would be different if you've known each other a while :p

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Originally Posted by sianness

just let him know that you care but would feel more comfortable taking things a bit slower and just having fun so to speak (the relationship fun of course).

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Yeah this, communicate with him, if you're seeing him everyday then try to see him a bit less

Just out of interest, how old are you?

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Originally Posted by DamienMarj

I've no idea what banana boat you come off from, but if anything you seem like your the guy she is talking about. LOSER.

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Lol if you knew me you'd realise how stupid you sound.

May just be that he isn't that good at expressing things in a non-scary way, sounds to me like the initial hyperlust where you've met someone new and it's all kicking off and everything seems perfect and wonderful without really knowing them all that well. I imagine he hopes that it's love and because he's in this state of emotion is probably trying to make himself believe that it is, and at a guess it's just an inexperience thing. It's nearly always the case that one falls harder than the other at first so if you do like him stick at it, but do let him know if it starts getting annoying.

I can't believe some of the responses I've read. If you think somebody has malicious intent from saying "I love you" then you must have some trust issues.

People take relationships at different paces and love is subjective so what he sees as 'love' might not necessarily be how you would define it. You're probably worried because the relationship seems to be moving quite fast and in general terms two weeks is pretty quick for somebody to fall in love. Don't rush into it and say it back just because you feel obliged to otherwise you're giving him false pretences.

I sincerely doubt he planned it out in any particular way to make you his 'object' unless he's a sociopath (which I very much doubt).