So confused?!

should just let it go.
was only a drunken kiss so it doesn't really count.

&it might help if you told her? but depends how you think she'll react.
Goodluck compadre.

You could've made the move but you didn't so I don't know why you're surprised some guy noticed a seriously drunk girl and took advantage, when you didn't.

I wouldn't be angry with her, the fact you're not together doesn't even come into it. If she's drunk, hot and (I assume) by herself, somebody will take that opportunity.

Yeah, kissing someone when you're drunk in a club is not a rare thing. A kiss is a kiss, especially as it was just a stranger.

Why don't you use this as an opportunity to tell her how you feel i.e. "i saw you kissing that guy and it made me realise how much i like you and want to be with you"

I've told her previously I've liked her, she said I was just a close friend. But we continued to sleep together we were always more than a friendship, less than a relationship. I have also asked her again, and she says she still doesn't want anything. I've decided to call off what we have and just remain friends. I've already got feelings for her, so if she gets into a relationship later, it will hurt me a lot more, so it's better to not make it worse. I did tell her that she had led me on, by saying she misses me, calling me baby, asking for massages with no clothes on and what not. Hopefully it gets better :)

you sleep in same bed with no sex?

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I've told her previously I've liked her, she said I was just a close friend. But we continued to sleep together we were always more than a friendship, less than a relationship. I have also asked her again, and she says she still doesn't want anything. I've decided to call off what we have and just remain friends. I've already got feelings for her, so if she gets into a relationship later, it will hurt me a lot more, so it's better to not make it worse. I did tell her that she had led me on, by saying she misses me, calling me baby, asking for massages with no clothes on and what not. Hopefully it gets better :)

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sounds like she's completely taking advantage of you. She wants a relationship without the commitment; make it clear to her that you either want a proper relationship or for her to 'back off' of all the relationshippy stuff because it's not fair to you!

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Me and this girl that I met at are really close, yesterday we all went clubing, I was with my friends and she was with hers. She was completely out of her head, so I went to look after her, her friends wanted me to look after her so I did, I went and got her some water, and as I came back she was sat with a guy and kissing him, although were not together, it really got to me, we're both really flirty together, sleep in the same bed (but don't have sex). Should I be angry at her? Shall I let it go?

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lol OP is in the friend zone.

Just an update. We're friends and I've moved on, can't be wasting time on girls that thrive on attention.

Um, I don't think you should be angry at her since your not together but, I know it will hurt her alot, and flirting goes on in every friendship. I o think though you should tell her how you feel as she should understand and see how it goes from there?