Do you think people are jealous of you?

im pretty good at telling people's feelings so erm times when ive thought people's rage/anger at me has been due to jealousy, even tho they haven't realised themselves, have been on two occasions;

1 - gymnastics, i was good and got medals, the girls already in gymnastics for a year and had no medals were horrible to me, pretty sure was jealousy cause no other reason rly, i never spoke to or about them lol
2 - my bro, i don't rly talk to him but one time i looked at him funny appaz + he starts shouting at me saying I think im so much better than him because i go to uni + I should stop looking down on him cause im a loser n w.e. i know it's just because he has no talent and no motivation to give himself a better life, he constantly tells ppl im a horrible ***** when he is a n evil ****. but then i think it's true that what we hate in others is things we hate in ourselves..

I don't think anyone jealous of my personality/appearance/life tho lol

I dunno but I hope no one is because jealousy is such a horrible thing to feel and I wouldn't wish it on anyone

I shouldn't think so. There's nothing particularly exciting about me to be jealous of.

no i dont think so

Why do people conflate dislike with jealousy so often idgi like yeah if there's actually some sort of competition going on it might be but when people just assume that anyone who doesn't like them is jealous without having anything to be jealous of it makes no sense

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

Why do people conflate dislike with jealousy so often idgi like yeah if there's actually some sort of competition going on it might be but when people just assume that anyone who doesn't like them is jealous without having anything to be jealous of it makes no sense

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but flyingjesus there are two different ways people can dislike u

they might dislike u because u r rude or they just dont like ur personality overall, however they can also dislike u because they are jealous of u

yer when im jelly of someone, i don't admit it even to myself, i find reasons to hate them to justify the hatred/jealousy i feel towards them lol so if someone hates u even when they don't know u, it could be jealousy n they just don't kno it

lets put a spin on this thread and take it in the other direction for a little while

have you ever been jealous of someone else, and if so, what for?

I think I've only ever been "jelly" of people with incredible wealth and models good looks, never a personality or a way of life because I feel my personality is what I want it to be and my lifestyle is how I choose (within financial limits) but with looks I can't really turn into a 10/10 and tomorrow I wont be a millionaire

that said I am grateful for what I have but you can't deny it'd be nice to be a perfect looking millionaire sometimes

I use the word jelly because imo when i think of the world "jealous" i think of someone having anger towards the individual for having something you dont have, jelly is more of a "i would love to have what they have but i'm not bothered that I don't"

i don't get jelly of people's looks or wealth, i get jelly of their confidence, talents (ie being creative, musical etc), popularity, stuff like that. also i get unhealthily JEALOUS if someone shows interest in someone i like, to the point of being an unbearable wench about or to them

No, there's no reason to be jealous of me. Although, a lot of lads seem to want my gf which is like NO STOP OK
I'm not really jealous of anyone but maybe of some peoples voices. Like some lads in the society, I would love to have their voices. On in particular I would proper commit homocide for :@