Obviously not if you're not serious however if you've made financial commitments together such as mortgages then yeah I think you should know.
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Obviously not if you're not serious however if you've made financial commitments together such as mortgages then yeah I think you should know.
idk about SHOULD but I'd want to know so I can work out how much of their money I can spend
lol cant have a true relationship if you cant trust your partner with your salary. rofl
yeah I dunno why someone would want to keep it from them anyway? I've a friend who is so weird about telling us what she makes I dunno why it's so taboo to ask
anyway me and my boo both on that high life min wage salary
I know my girlfriends wage and she knows mine but I don't think either of us know how much each other has very often. We are pretty open about it and hopeing to live together soon so will probably know more then. I don't think it's a necessity but it could be important
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Originally Posted by Kardan
If I met someone and they refused to tell me how much they earnt a year I would think twice about dating them.
Pretty much setting yourself up for disaster.
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Originally Posted by Kardan
Yes in any long term relationship.
only if you're living together. even then i don't think you need to know exact specifics. i like with my partner and have no idea how much he makes, he contributes more than me so it doesn't matter to be what extra he has.
Well since we lived together me and my other half share a bank account so everything we earn goes into one account so I know everything makes it easier to plan and for bills etc I don't see why it's a big secret etc lol :)