Marriage/House/Kids?

haven't even thought about it it seems so long away.

Mine would definitely be

marriage > house > kids

though actual marriage isn't particularly important to me so I'd be perfectly fine being unmarried to my partner but I know it makes a big difference for the future when it comes to inheritance tax and things I think so yeah. But before kids it wouldn't bother me.

House > Marriage > Kids or Marriage > House > Kids

I wouldn't mind living in an apartment though before becoming a homeowner. :P

Probs house first, if I had kids I'd want them growing up somewhere stable

kids after a house
can always move if i have more :S

I'm hoping I'd get my own place soon and that's the first thing is want to do above all else.
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and although getting married would be lovely, I honestly don't see the point in it but that's my personal opinion :)
As for kids, right now I honestly don't plan on having any as I want to be able to live my life . My mind will probably change by the time it comes to it though and if it did I'd only want one child :)

House because atm that is probably the only one of the three I've got any chance of getting. I can manage just fine without marriage or kids but a roof over my head would be nice lol

House.

Don't really see myself getting married or having kids so YEAH but if I did it'd be in that order

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Originally Posted by Nick

I can see where @buttons; comes from where you buy a house after you have kids but I think I would rather have a house before having kids

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I agree with you Nick. I think if you have kids, you're never going to be able to afford to buy a house, however if you're buying a house and your partner fell pregnant then I think that you would find a way of managing and being able to look after the kids. Obviously it may not work but I think it would work better like that and ideally be married after you've got the house but before the kids.

question tho; you likely gonna have to save for years before u can afford a decent deposit on a decent house, are you all gonna wait till you can afford a house before you have kids? our logic was we wouldn't be able to afford a mortgage on a 3 bedroom house until we are like 30 and i want kids before that age and marriage before kids so that was the logical answer for me!

if we both got a decent wage raise we would deffo think about getting a house first