yeah but you'd need childcare too so he can focus on his games.Quote:
Originally Posted by wixard
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yeah but you'd need childcare too so he can focus on his games.Quote:
Originally Posted by wixard
id need childcare for our kids and you since you need babied all the time haha xQuote:
Originally Posted by scottish
Depends on the job. Don't find my job v stressful at all, I enjoy it and have energy when I get home to do things. I imagine being a stay at home mum would be a lot more work and you get adult conversation at least going to work too.
I think both have it's own challenges and stresses really, personally I'd probably PREFER going out to work as a break. Can you imagine being with children day in day out without a break? Not for me thank you very much, think I'd go insane.
You can't just say ones harder than the other because it all depends on the circumstances. My mum has been a stay at home mum for all 3 of us and also done abit of stay at home granny. She was 19 when she had my sister and at the time my dad had a job until her got made redundant. But when i came 16 years later i didnt make it easy for my mum to get a job. She didnt get a break 8-3 no it was 24/7 job. Most days school would either send me home for a few days or sometimes just for a few hours. So how is she meant to have a job when i was often excluded? Does she get a break at night? no i wouldn't sleep in my own room till i was 10 and tbh i just wouldn't sleep.
Enough of that my point is just because they dont go out to work doesnt mean they have a easy time because you don't know what they have to deal with. And tbh yh some stay at home mums will have it easy and generally just lazy.
It also depends on what job you have and how much you enjoy it. You might have a really good job you love doing that maybe only be down the road. Or you could have a really shit stressful job.