Have you told your parents?

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Originally Posted by buttons

wow wtf (my first wtf omfg lmfao!!!!)
you can't be arsed to tell your parents? i don't think you realize it's quite a big deal for them, not knowing that their child may not be giving them grandchildren. fair enough if you're not 100% sure, even if you're bisexual there's still obviously that chance that you won't.... i'm not saying they'll get really serious over it but not telling them because you can't be arsed is pretty stupid, would understand if it was because you weren't ready. ah nvm this isn't sounding how i want it to..

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I have a brother and 2 sisters :) So grandchildren are sorted.
As i said before, its my life, i don't HAVE to tell them it is my choice.
They never ask me so there is no need to tell them.
What they don't know wont hurt them :)
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IF i were, my mum and stepdad probably wouldnt care, as would most of my family. wouldn't bother telling my dad since i only speak to him on birthdays/xmas and see him one day a year.
as for friends, one of my best friends is gay and he's still our friend, so itd be the same for me i'd like to think

he took ages to come out tho. i moved schools in year 9, knew he was gay when i got to eb friends with him, he only came out in like first year of college lol, dont think his parents know yet tho but i said something to his mum when i was drunk once oops

friends & family.
i regret telling my family.

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Originally Posted by Froobet

friends & family.
i regret telling my family.

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If you don't mind me asking, why do you regret telling them?

IMO, it will be MUCH easier for our kids to tell us, than us to tell our parents. Although, if your gay/les you won't be having kids, soo.

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Originally Posted by Reality

If you don't mind me asking, why do you regret telling them?

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lol, i don't mind.
my dad took a hissy fit and went all homophobic.

My parents would ring my neck if I was gay

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Originally Posted by Reality

Haha, why did you choose to tell friends and cousins first though?

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Dunno... well I get on REALLY well with my cousins and so I felt most confident telling them.... they went and told their mum who I get on with amazingly well and when I realised they all accepted it and not one of them said a bad thing I decided to tell my friends, so I pretty much text my entire contact list.. Haha... then about two weeks later I told my parents.