help?

u dnt need to tell everyone, just be open with but i don't see why you need to boardcast it myself, but if someone asks you tell them but i never really saw the point of telling everyone, Some people do it for attention like telling the whole school as they will all be talking about it. Just tell people who your friends with and if other people find out so be it. and i am your gay/bi friend >:{ You can talk 2 me bcz u have met me twice irl init.

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Originally Posted by Topman

u dnt need to tell everyone, just be open with but i don't see why you need to boardcast it myself, but if someone asks you tell them but i never really saw the point of telling everyone, Some people do it for attention like telling the whole school as they will all be talking about it. Just tell people who your friends with and if other people find out so be it. and i am your gay/bi friend >:{ You can talk 2 me bcz u have met me twice irl init.

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yeah n i did speak to you didn't i? when we was outside the pub waiting for emz to throw up & stuff

and i just mean like.. someone who i can see like daily or whatever.. if ya no what i mean?

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Originally Posted by Hysteria

yeah n i did speak to you didn't i? when we was outside the pub waiting for emz to throw up & stuff

and i just mean like.. someone who i can see like daily or whatever.. if ya no what i mean?

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ye i mean if you ever need to talk about anything else gay related or not, i found out some other boy in my school is bi and i have started to talk to him more often so i get what you mean :d

Well you have to be realistic about it because I know that six people already know, but when your'e bound to tell more people, it will most certainly get around, you have to think how you will handle it because people can be quite nasty because their a boy in my year is openly gay and basically he gets physically hurt, I'm not trying to put you off it I'm just trying to make sure you think it through alot before you make any decisions.

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Originally Posted by Eamonn

Well you have to be realistic about it because I know that six people already know, but when your'e bound to tell more people, it will most certainly get around, you have to think how you will handle it because people can be quite nasty because their a boy in my year is openly gay and basically he gets physically hurt, I'm not trying to put you off it I'm just trying to make sure you think it through alot before you make any decisions.

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excactly the same at my skool, we have 2 gays who get bullied all the time, i think many find it very odd because one comes in with lip gloss and make up on while the other in p.e wears his socks up to his elbows:o

I dont really treat Gay/Bi Any different from I am really

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Originally Posted by Hysteria

ok, right. recently i've been a bit .. bleh. and i've just wanted to meet someone who was gay/bi irl? not even for a relationship really.. just to talk to. like someone my own age and stuff. but i really don't know how to go about itt.

like, i've been thinking maybe i should just tell everyone and get it over and done with, because 6 of my mates know and they don't give a **** lol. but then on the other hand i'm reluctant because someone is bound to react badly.

baah.

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My thought is, just don't deny it. If someone asks "are you gay" then shrug your shoulders and say yes. It's really not becoming a huge deal anymore. I mean, no one has really asked me before, because I dated a girl for quite a long time. But if they say "are you bi" I wont lie, makes it easy. You are who you are.

sorry i havn't replied sooner, havn't been on much.

but thanks to people who helped. if someone asked me if i was, i would tell them but no one ever has.