could i get this guy done with sexual harrassment?

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Originally Posted by buttons

yesterday the same guy pushed me in to the disabled toilets at college while his friends kept the door closed and he took off his belt, just being all "you know you want to". he's only gotten this bad since i have a boyfriend, when i was single i would normally joke about saying to go for it but he's never gone this far before

anyway i got out, he apologized but i said **** it, asked my "friends" to be witnesses for the friday thing, obviously i can't prove anything from yesterday cause it was only us 2 in the toilets. both of them tried to get me not to tell (:S) and "calm down" and just explain to him i don't like it. apparently i'm no fun any longer...

i told my tutor n he's gonna do something about it, i've not been to college so dunno whats gonna happen really. & yeh you're right my bf has no respect for me cause he said i brought it on myself.

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This is so bad. He thinks he can get away with this behaviour. I am surprised your b/f has taken this attitude. You certainly have done the right thing in reporting as it is probably if he is not stopped it could well happen again and also
his behaviour would certainly repeat itself. You are probably saving other girls having to go through this humiliating experince and should be commended for it. =]

You have done the right thing, i'd of reported the first thing and the second, he can't really deny the second if you have witnesses for the first.

Reporting it to the college is a start but remember how anything like this makes the college look bad so expect a cover up and a few quiet words (The guy should be thrown out). If you have taken time off because of this then its ruining your education so I think you should take this complaint to the police :o The guy has serious issues and needs to be dealt with properly.

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Originally Posted by jrh2002

Reporting it to the college is a start but remember how anything like this makes the college look bad so expect a cover up and a few quiet words (The guy should be thrown out). If you have taken time off because of this then its ruining your education so I think you should take this complaint to the police :o The guy has serious issues and needs to be dealt with properly.

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hitman? :D

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Originally Posted by jrh2002

Reporting it to the college is a start but remember how anything like this makes the college look bad so expect a cover up and a few quiet words (The guy should be thrown out). If you have taken time off because of this then its ruining your education so I think you should take this complaint to the police :o The guy has serious issues and needs to be dealt with properly.

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nah wasn't off because of that but i'm glad i am. hes leaving college soon as he's been offered a job, wonder what they'll think of this

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Originally Posted by Stefy09

hitman? :D

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well lets just say my brothers are less than impressed;) haha

anyway i have been told to get evidence so i've been a little bit sneaky and got some chatlogs and screenies from one guy who was there, he didn't do anything really but stand in the background;
(this guys first language is not english lol)
http://i42.tinypic.com/64huhd.jpgmy brothers and mum were watching while the guy was typing it so there's no excuse for the college to try cover it up and say i made it up. have to keep the convo up till the police come (omg on hxf while the police are here bet you can't say you've done that ;l).
scribbled out names anyway. lets see if anything will happen now, college weren't taking it seriously so mum did

It's good you have the police involved, you have to be serious else they'll think it's ok to do it.

What a gentleman he is.

Nah just kidding he sounds like a ****. Report him.

That person on msn was a dope lol. U did the right ting :)

aww good on you jen for not taking it! :) get bean on them lol :l

omg what a freak. hope it gets sorted jen x