What do you do when someone you loved hurts you badly?

Emotional Pain - Eat a lot of food.

Physical Pain - Go to the gym.

I'm a pretty well balanced guy.

I'm going to assume here that they aren't sorry and not willing to work this out, yes?

If so then there's really not much you can do. You have to remember that if they hurt you that bad then they really aren't worth having in your life and it's THEIR loss, not yours.

It'll probably take you time to get over it but try not to sit around getting upset about it because thinking about it will only upset you more. Occupy your mind with a hobby or hang out with your friends, it'll take the edge off it and stop you thinking about it.

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Originally Posted by Catzsy

It is really not as easy as that. When you love somebody and they hurt you badly you feel betrayed and lose confidence. It is only natural to go through a cycle of hurt, depression and anger before you can see it more objectively again. You can't just get over it like that. It takes time. People cannot control the way they feel and if posting here makes the member feel better then that's fine. Time is the answer and hopefully other people that you can talk too and support you.

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So true and if anyone has been in real love, no matter how much the person you love hurts you, you can't stop loving them.
They say you only have 2 true loves in your life and you will never stop loving that person if you really did love them.
I think the best way is to get out there and find someone your really like and they might soon take your mind off the person that hurt you, it will be hard though.
No matter what, your going to get hurt in the end so its best to find someone whos worth it. Well thats what iv always thought aha.

Dump them. Short and sweet

I just shut myself away from them :x