I need help

well school is at the most 13 years.... not even a fifth of the average life expectancy. so you have more to live for. don't give up o.o

Get a piece of paper, split the page in half then write all the good things about your life (maybe you have a nice mum and dad, and you can include your girlfriend) then add all your worries on the other. If you really think about it, you may find you have a lot more to live for than you thought.

well even if I manage to get through the school thing, what about the girlfriend situation? i don't know what to do about that and i dont want to lose her.

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Originally Posted by blackops121

well even if I manage to get through the school thing, what about the girlfriend situation? i don't know what to do about that and i dont want to lose her.

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Talk to her about it. You havent lost it and you're just being paranoid, so just talk to her.

If it turns out you do lose her, then you've only be with her for 6 months. Man up and move on. You're young, the chances you stay with her the rest of your life are so stupidly small

I've tried, She says everythings fine and i've to forget about it, But its clearly not, Shes not talking to me properly, she is giving short replies that are usually just seem like shes in a mood, and she said something about having a chat with someone about me and its made her realise something, and she says its not bad, but im sure it is,

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Originally Posted by blackops121

I've tried, She says everythings fine and i've to forget about it, But its clearly not, Shes not talking to me properly, she is giving short replies that are usually just seem like shes in a mood, and she said something about having a chat with someone about me and its made her realise something, and she says its not bad, but im sure it is,

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Maybe she herself is going through something. If she says to forget about it, forget about it. Just enjoy the time you have with her instead of being paranoid about when you lose her. Like i said, its very unlikely you stay with her for the rest of ur life.

Either way, being suicidal over that kind of thing actually annoys me, just realise you're actually a lucky person, perhaps not in all aspects of your life, but overall you are.

I think I know how you feel. I have felt the same way for a while. And recently after having been dumped by a long term girlfriend, whom I still love, losing my job and possibly my home, the only comfort I have found is the fact of moving away (also at the same time thinking I CAN go through with it now). I made the decision to move back to London and stay with my nan and grandad, or my brother for a while, whilst I sort my life out and get a job etc. I now have things to look forward to like seeing my TRUE friends, finally finishing my driving license, clubbing in style (****** Spain), and actually getting far away from my ex, which will hopefully help me stop thinking about her,

So what I'm trying to say is, find something that you can look forward to or actually try and get away atleast for a little while.

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Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo

Ive been bullied myself, i know what it feels like. You have 3 options.

1) Confront the bullies, see what their issue is and try it work out with them.
2) Change school, the easiest of the options and immediately sorts out your problem.
3) Talk to an adult/teacher. THey can always help and sort it out, you never know. Cant get any worse apparently.


Either way, you shouldn't even be even close to contemplating suicide and the fact that you are just surprises me.

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Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo

Wow is that it? Im sorry but bullying can be hard but that's nothing to be suicidal over. I have felt like killing myself a number of times, both when ive been young and somewhat recently and you have nothing to being crying over. Hell, as sad as i was i probably shouldn't have been thinking of something like that since there's people SOOOOOOOOOOO much worse off its unbelievable. But anyway, back to you. Bullying is something that can be easily dealt with, if they're just rumours, ignore them. It's not even physical so im really not seeing a problem here, its not as though you're fearing for your health (or even that you're ill yourself). Just tell an adult/teacher and get it sorted with, if need be move schools if its THAT hard to cope.

As for your girlfriend, that's just your pesimistic mind, making you paranoid. Talk to her about your feelings and she'll either reassure you, or itll be true, in which case you can stop worrying and just get over it. Atleast you have a girlfriend mate.

Im sorry but you have nothing to even be depressed over. Easily solved solutions.
U edited ur post nvm.

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Niamh, everybody is different. He is feeling this way so that's the situation. We all get hardened as we get older but at the moment he can't help the way he feels. The good thing is that he is talking about it. :)

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Originally Posted by Catzsy

Niamh, everybody is different. He is feeling this way so that's the situation. We all get hardened as we get older but at the moment he can't help the way he feels. The good thing is that he is talking about it. :)

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I know im probably being a tad harsh, but this is a serious feeling and unles he seriously realises that he actually has a decent life, he'll probably kill himself later on in life if he gets fired or something averagely bad happens to him. Or if his girlfriend does dump him, who knows what he'll do. Better to tell him now to, straight up, that people can and have felt a lot worse and for a good reason. I'm sorry, just having felt like that before over what i believe was a big issue, to then see someone think they feel the same over getting verbally bullied + feeling paranoid annoys me.

I know the seriousness of what i'm thinking on doing, and I know its a stupid reason really and the situation can be much worse, but I cant help it, its just the way I feel and need to live with every day,