so you/your partner has a progressive, incurable disease

I'd stay. But I'd insist they left me so they could live a happy life.

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Originally Posted by Kardan

I would stay, so would she.

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CONTROLLING. CHANGE THAT WOULD TO WILL.

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I'd leave them.

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Originally Posted by Skandair

CONTROLLING. CHANGE THAT WOULD TO WILL.

:D

I'd leave them.

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Saying will would imply that it is happening, wouldn't it?

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Originally Posted by Kardan

Saying will would imply that it is happening, wouldn't it?

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i dunno
ur the smart one

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

Would it make them ugly

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Er lets say no...? but they'd be in a wheelchair cud u handle tht
n would u be comfortable with allowing ur partner look after u or would be like NOR LEAVE ME

One of my sisters friends mum had some disease (can't remember what it was but she was really disabled). She was with a guy who took care of her and think he felt like he had to, she was obviously in no fit state to fulfil his 'needs' so to speak so he got it else wear, pretty sure she knew about it too but didn't say anything. Dunno what I'd do, at this age I'd leave them as I wouldn't be able to cope with it but obviously if you've been in a long term relationship say 10 years plus, I think it would be different.

Wheelchairs are fun so idk, if I was able to support them then yeah why not it's not like my love life would need to involve playing football with them or w/e

As for if it happened to me then sure I like being looked after it makes things easy and if I can't use my legs then they'll get really thin *+*+*

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Originally Posted by buttons

i feel u but i think if you're completely in love with someone then ul devote yourself to them no matter what
n im the same i think i would make up excuse to finish the relationship even make up lies to hurt them n make them stop loving me but yhhh dunno

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god forbid you ever get an incurable disease, but if you do I know your plan, so it won't work anymore.

But OP we'd both stay apparently (I deffo would)

If they wanted me to stay I would

I'd stay for sure. I really couldn't leave them, that is just heartless.