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10-09-2005, 10:19 PM
Roboevil

So you're a bit homophobic then?

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10-09-2005, 10:19 PM
ross

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Originally Posted by Pulchritudinous

Oh no, I wouldn't be offended, I accept the fact that some people have different sexualities, I'd just feel a teeny bit 'icky'. =/

Yeah that's understandable because; you don't have the same feelings as her and you think differently, don't worry about it - friendship is what matters.

I'm sure she repspects you for still being her friend when she told you she was Bisexual. :)
10-09-2005, 10:22 PM
icebox12

HeHe, I know what you mean, you wouldn't be able to fully accept it but you would also not like it that your friend looks at you in a different way than she used to.

I have a friend who was told that her friend had feelings for her, she couldn't imagin being friends with her again, but luckily she decided to accept it, and if by any chance her friend begin to have more feelings for her she would just say that she feels a bit uncomfortable about it, luckily her friend (the one who had feelings) accepted this, now there friendship is better than ever.

Pulchritudinous just remember, if your friend does have feelings for you and you do feel uncomfortable about it, please do not hide the fact that you, simle tell her and she will accept that, as if she was in the same position as you she may think the same.
10-09-2005, 10:24 PM
the wombats

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Originally Posted by icebox12

HeHe, I know what you mean, you wouldn't be able to fully accept it but you would also not like it that your friend looks at you in a different way than she used to.

I have a friend who was told that her friend had feelings for her, she couldn't imagin being friends with her again, but luckily she decided to accept it, and if by any chance her friend begin to have more feelings for her she would just say that she feels a bit uncomfortable about it, luckily her friend (the one who had feelings) accepted this, now there friendship is better than ever.

Pulchritudinous just remember, if your friend does have feelings for you and you do feel uncomfortable about it, please do not hide the fact that you, simle tell her and she will accept that, as if she was in the same position as you she may think the same.

Matt is in a helpful moad today :p Lol

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10-09-2005, 10:28 PM
Pulchritudinous

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Originally Posted by icebox12

HeHe, I know what you mean, you wouldn't be able to fully accept it but you would also not like it that your friend looks at you in a different way than she used to.

I have a friend who was told that her friend had feelings for her, she couldn't imagin being friends with her again, but luckily she decided to accept it, and if by any chance her friend begin to have more feelings for her she would just say that she feels a bit uncomfortable about it, luckily her friend (the one who had feelings) accepted this, now there friendship is better than ever.

Pulchritudinous just remember, if your friend does have feelings for you and you do feel uncomfortable about it, please do not hide the fact that you, simle tell her and she will accept that, as if she was in the same position as you she may think the same.

Yes, I'll remember that if she ever does fancy me, lol, that I'll break it to her nicely that I'm erm..not interested.
10-09-2005, 10:29 PM
Pulchritudinous

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Originally Posted by Roboevil

So you're a bit homophobic then?

Ermmm...you could say that.

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10-09-2005, 10:29 PM
icebox12

I'm only helping as I know how hard it is to accept these kind of things.

If I have to be honest, I have wondered if I was straight, or gay... This was back in year 7, but then I realised that I do have feelings for woman/females.

I cannot lie, I do occasionaly say that someone is good looking (males) that doesn't mean I have feelings for them as Brad Pitt is a good looking man.

Also don't double post Pulchritudinous :)
10-09-2005, 10:32 PM
the wombats

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Originally Posted by icebox12

I'm only helping as I know how hard it is to accept these kind of things.

If I have to be honest, I have wondered if I was straight, or gay... This was back in year 7, but then I realised that I do have feelings for woman/females.

I cannot lie, I do occasionaly say that someone is good looking (males) that doesn't mean I have feelings for them as Brad Pitt is a good looking man.

Also don't double post Pulchritudinous :)

As icebox said, you can say someone the same gender as you is good looking but not have any feelings. Just if you are keeping your sexuality secret from your parants, try and tell them and I am pretty sure they would help you in anyway possible
10-09-2005, 10:35 PM
icebox12

Yup craig has a point there, as i've mentioned in my previous post's, your parents, family, friends, ect. will not think any different of you for your sexuality, it's up to you what you like and they know that there is nothing to change that, for this they will accept it. They also know if you are scared to tell others of this, they will help in any way possible.
10-09-2005, 10:38 PM
dittobrain

Too right.

Homophobics are ridiculous. Its perfectly natural for a human to have feelings for someone of the same ***. If you have a problem with it, keep it to yourself :eusa_danc

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