I'm actually shocked how long my last relationship was as really it should have ended long before it did.
There were a few things that were forgiven in my last relationship which was probably why we were together for a fair while.
To make it short, some of the reasons why he broke up with me:
- He was finishing college.
- He had no money, and he didn't really have money from his job as the distance was too much, for the job @
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- He was embarrassed because I was shy, yet when I was outgoing I also embarrassed him.
- I was inexperienced (I was more experienced than him).
The reasons why I should have broke up with him long before:
- He didn't care or comfort me when my Nanny passed away.
- I paid for everything.
- He used to change plans we had made to suit his family when he rarely saw me anyway.
- He chatted up my sister and Laura and he knew how I felt about the former as another ex (online) had gone for my sister too.
- The distance wasn't too bad, but it was my dad who had to drive him to and from his house.
- We never had a proper date.
- We never went out anywhere.
- We never saw each other, and if we did it was for a couple of hours.
- When I was at his house, staying over he didn't even feed me properly. I had 3 packets of crisp and that's it. I had one drink which I wouldn't have got if I didn't buy the milk for him.
- He was embarrassed by me.
- He used to say brb via text, I'd end up texting hours later to find he was going to bed. So we never spoke either.
- He was chatting up girls and asking them dirty questions on Ask.fm (I confronted him about this).
After we broke up I didn't know what to do, he broke up with me over text and I deserved more than that. So I met up with him for answers and he said he only wanted a break until college was over. We unofficially got back together which he lied about.
Someone, the day after I saw my ex asked for my number at work and we ended up texting for 11 hours straight. A couple of days later I asked my ex what he constituted as cheating, and he said I could pretty much do anything. He said I could do anything as I was inexpererienced. I knew there was no going back for me and my ex so I kept texting this other person, we got closer and became an item. My ex had the nerve to say I cheated on him even though we weren't together (even unofficially as he lied about it). I cut him out of my life and I'm so much better without him. Although he tried bad mouthing the other guy I was talking to, telling me he was a cradle snatcher for being 5/6 years older than me, got told by his friend that he was my rebound. It's a shame that, they were so wrong because that guy, I'm still with now and it's our 2 year anniversary this month, although we had a break due to someone trying to worm his way onto my good side as he has a massive crish on me.
This post is longer than I expected.
Tl;Dr My ex was an absolute idiot.
I'm actually shocked how long my last relationship was as really it should have ended long before it did.