Her mums boyfriend took advantage of her.

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19-07-2007, 12:53 PM
Kissed

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Originally Posted by birmz

i think it's actually legal now that you can check whether a family member is on the sex offenders register? i'm not being funny or anything, but these kinda things aren't the first time people like that try things. if you get me? i reckon you should find out how to do that, with your friends consent & all. and i'm pretty sure since you're over 16 you wouldn't need parental consent.

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Originally Posted by birmz

otherwise, i definitely think you should persuade your friend to consider the police. cause, y'know, tell her that if he's done it to her he could quite easily do it to other members of her immediate family.
good luck. i hope she sorts out, i can't imagine how vile that must be. xo.

Yeah I totally agree, but I don't want to do anything she doesnt feel comfortable with.
Thanks :]
19-07-2007, 12:54 PM
Hecktix

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Originally Posted by Kissed

Yeah I totally agree, but I don't want to do anything she doesnt feel comfortable with.
Thanks :]

That is exactly the right thing to do.
I admire you.
Check your rep to see the reasons :P
19-07-2007, 01:02 PM
Kissed

Aww Oli
Thankyou
It's not anything special, i'm just trying to treat her how i'd want to be treated.
It's nice to know someone understands :]
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19-07-2007, 01:21 PM
Hecktix

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Originally Posted by Kissed

Aww Oli
Thankyou
It's not anything special, i'm just trying to treat her how i'd want to be treated.
It's nice to know someone understands :]
<33

tbh tis one of the hardest situations ive ever been in, and its really hard knowing you cant tell anyone because they will hate you for it because when they have to go through it, they obviously relive the memory, and its nasty, very nasty.
19-07-2007, 01:25 PM
kyle♥

If I was you I'll just go to the poilce, this is pretty serious. Who cares if your friend don't talk to you? You're only trying to help her out. And her mum don't need to be going out with a sicko. Good luck :).
19-07-2007, 01:27 PM
Hecktix

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Originally Posted by Criminal

If I was you I'll just go to the poilce, this is pretty serious. Who cares if your friend don't talk to you? You're only trying to help her out. And her mum don't need to be going out with a sicko. Good luck :).

you really dont understand.
going to the police would make this thing go to court, because there is no way the police would let someone "not press charges" on a case such as serious as this.

that would mean your friend would have to sit in a courtroom (or on camera) and describe what happened to them in full detail.

so yeah; if you want to put your friend through the whole ordeal again, GO AHEAD!

somethings are best left alone.
19-07-2007, 01:36 PM
kyle♥

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Originally Posted by invincible

you really dont understand.
going to the police would make this thing go to court, because there is no way the police would let someone "not press charges" on a case such as serious as this.

that would mean your friend would have to sit in a courtroom (or on camera) and describe what happened to them in full detail.

so yeah; if you want to put your friend through the whole ordeal again, GO AHEAD!

somethings are best left alone.

Who would want to leave something like that alone? Going through the ordeal again would be the dad doing things to her, not going to court and getting the sicko locked up :S.
19-07-2007, 02:22 PM
indian8132

Could you tell us how far he took it with her, I mean, was it actual sex? Because the further it was then the more serious it is and the more time he could get done for. I understand if you dont want to tell us. Also, was it her real dad?
19-07-2007, 02:33 PM
Dentafrice,

You need to go to the police.

If it was statutory rape they will do a rape kit at the hospital.

Otherwise if it was just molestation you will need no evidence. He will go straight to jail.

You need to tell the police yourself, don't worry about her. She will forgive you, the police will handle it. Teenagers are not responsible for things like this, tell the police.
19-07-2007, 02:37 PM
Bef

This guy needs to be out of her life. Hes done it once and may well do it again!! her mum needs to know what sort of a man she thinks shes in love with!

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Originally Posted by Dentafrice,

You need to go to the police.

If it was statutory rape they will do a rape kit at the hospital.

Otherwise if it was just molestation you will need no evidence. He will go straight to jail.

You need to tell the police yourself, don't worry about her. She will forgive you, the police will handle it. Teenagers are not responsible for things like this, tell the police.

its to late for collecting any sort of evidence

realistically thers not much the police can do without any proof unless the guy admits to it!!

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