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Most of you are all like NO I WOULD NEVER bububub...
whatever the reason, you are still 'killing' a baby. Regadless if it was there because of rape, unprotected sex etc. doesn't change the fact you're pregnant just like any other time. shouldn't it be a yes or no answer?
No because there are different situations. Me personally if i fell pregnant due to my own stupidity of having unprotected sex then I would keep it but if I was raped I don't think I would because rape is the worst thing that could happen to a women and if she fell pregnant to a rapist it would be even harder...You have to think what it would be like for both the child and the mother....Each time the mother would look at the child the memories of the rape would be there...and what happens when the child asks about it's dad? it wouldn't be very good for a child to know it's father is a rapist and thats the reason it is here....Think how you would feel if you found out the only reason you're here is because your mum suffered at the hands of a rapist?Quote:
Originally Posted by H
Rape would be the only thing that would cause me to have an abortion nothing else.
i am surprised at some of your replies, especially the males.
some of you just go SNAP! "yes, i want my girl to abort simply because i am not ready to be a parent," thinking it would be that simple. talk about handling the consequences of your actions?
just because we're the men and we're not the ones getting pregnant, you think you can go around having sex and when you do get someone pregnant, you simply tell them "hey! get an abortion. i'm not ready, i'm not ready!"
i'm not saying you can't have an abortion. all i'm saying is, basically, think before you act. and think about the ladies, they are the ones who get the babies inside them. have a little heart for them.
Yeah damn right!! Finally a male who speaks sense....I want to have your babies :eusa_dancQuote:
Originally Posted by Herman
i can say she'd get abortion because my girlfriend believes the same as me though...Quote:
Originally Posted by Herman
made me laugh :P.Quote:
Originally Posted by whitebengal
I would get loads of abortions and keep them all
If it were to happen right now, I'd want her to.
It's not being an ******* or anything but bottom line is that I don't want a kid unless I can support it and make sure that it's raised properly. I don't have a job, I don't have a house (under my name) and I don't have a car. I wouldn't be able to support the kid in any sort of way and it'd be the burden of my mom + her parents.
That's why I choose to not have sex atm because I don't want to risk it. I'd rather not have sex and and not have the risk then do it and have that risk. Yes there's always protection, etc. but **** happens.
If she chose not to abort though, then (like any other guy should) I'd get a job, save money, etc. and be there for the girl + baby.
It kinda depends on:
What age you are
Who the mother is
Will the mother be a good mother?
If the age is over 20, I loved the mother and the mother would be a good mother then I would ask her too keep it.
But if she didn't want to keep it, then I would accept her decision.
The only thing what puts me off is after the birth.. cutting the umbilical cord.
no matter what and how i get pregnant whatsoever, i wldnt do it. its just cruel
also my parents have always told me, no babys out of wedlock :P.