Abortion

this thread has been open all dayand has attracted so much attention!

i must say that this "debate" has cirtainly given me something to think about.

i'm sure that we can all agree that sumtymes you have to take drastic measures, as evil as it may be there are cirtain curcumstances that require an abortion, but sum people are abusing them and usin it for conception, just because they were fooling to forget protection.

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I still belive that the baby has a right to live and experiance life, and it is cirtainly wrong to deny that right to them

Abortion should definetely be the girl's choice, she is having the baby, she should be able to pick and choose whether she wants it or not, come on why would you make a little girl go through child birth, thats just torture, you hear adults whining about labor and how bad it is, why would you make a little girl go through that??

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Originally Posted by .mcgovlau.

Abortion should definetely be the girl's choice, she is having the baby, she should be able to pick and choose whether she wants it or not, come on why would you make a little girl go through child birth, thats just torture, you hear adults whining about labor and how bad it is, why would you make a little girl go through that??

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It'd probably be more traumatic for someone so young to have an abortion than to give birth. So unless they're so young that they physically can't carry a baby, then there's no need for an abortion. They obviously weren't too young to take the risk of getting pregnant so they're not too young to face up to what they did and deal with it regardless of their age.

an abortion will leave a emotional scar, but carrying the baby for nine months, seeing it be born, then having to give it away because you are too young, leaves quite a big physical and emotional scar aswell....

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Originally Posted by Mendonky

an abortion will leave a emotional scar, but carrying the baby for nine months, seeing it be born, then having to give it away because you are too young, leaves quite a big physical and emotional scar aswell....

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Maybe, but they should think a little more about that before hopping into bed with someone :rolleyes: It'd leave them hurt whatever they did i know that, but for me..if i did decide to give it up, i think it'd be alot easier to live with myself knowing that yeah i made a mistake, but now my kids with someone who want's it and can look after it better, rather than knowing i killed it.

Edit - Woops :eusa_clap Quoted myself by mistake.

I knew an older girl who had an abortion, and she seems happy to not be burdened. I guess it depends on the person.

Personally, I think it should be allowed, and with the rape issue, how would you like to be a boyfriend, and find your girlfriend is pregnant with another man's baby? Eventually if she gave birth, then had kids with the boyfriend, the rapist child would be mistreated in some way. I believe the parents have the right to abort or not, and also, at the point they are "terminated" there is now life yet(not totally sure tho)

nawty illusion! double posting :eusa_naug

but put it into perspective- your a 12 year old girl, and you have just goitten pregnant. you still have a hole life of schoolwork working towards you big tests, how are you gonna concentrate knowing that the babygrowing inside of you is not wanted, and soon enough it will be showing that you arepregnant, so u either have to admit you are pregnant, and have everyone call you very harsh names, or keep it secret, live with the baby, the stretch marks, the emotional pain of giving it away, and missing a very important part of ur school life....

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Originally Posted by Mendonky

nawty illusion! double posting :eusa_naug

but put it into perspective- your a 12 year old girl, and you have just goitten pregnant. you still have a hole life of schoolwork working towards you big tests, how are you gonna concentrate knowing that the babygrowing inside of you is not wanted, and soon enough it will be showing that you arepregnant, so u either have to admit you are pregnant, and have everyone call you very harsh names, or keep it secret, live with the baby, the stretch marks, the emotional pain of giving it away, and missing a very important part of ur school life....

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And don't forget alot of parent's threaten that if you don't have an abortion they won't help with the baby. In that instance the girl almost always MUST have an abortion.

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Originally Posted by Mendonky

nawty illusion! double posting :eusa_naug

but put it into perspective- your a 12 year old girl, and you have just goitten pregnant. you still have a hole life of schoolwork working towards you big tests, how are you gonna concentrate knowing that the babygrowing inside of you is not wanted, and soon enough it will be showing that you arepregnant, so u either have to admit you are pregnant, and have everyone call you very harsh names, or keep it secret, live with the baby, the stretch marks, the emotional pain of giving it away, and missing a very important part of ur school life....

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Lol :p shh!

Like i said, it's a risk they take and they should give it more thought. I'm just commenting from what i'd do, but everyones situation is different. If they have no physical/mental problems that are stopping them from havin the baby, then i don't see why they can't. Whether they keep it or not, that's another story, but to just kill it for something that wasn't it's fault is wrong to me.