Why would someone want to be gay?

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21-10-2007, 11:13 AM
English

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

No one said anyone is listening to you, if 'Gods' intentions was that clear then why would people have feelings towards the same gender? And why are you only referencing man on man ...... don't tell me you accept woman on woman ...... funny huh.

He asked me a question, so therefore he was 'listening' to me you foolish child. I don't mind a bit of woman on woman, but when it's 2 butch lezzas then that's not good! Hating homosexuals is just as hypocritical as racism is.

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

I know gay people that were bullied at school for being gay, i suppose they woke up one day and thought 'i want to be gay, i want to be bullied and discriminated against'

People get bullied everyday for stuff they can't help, I don't wanna hear your soppy story about homosexuals getting bullied. I'm not saying they chose it atall, but if the world started out with straight people then it must have come from somewhere & it wouldn't be genetic as they would have straight parents.

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

How can people help where the atrraction lies? Some people like coffee other tea ...... there are not too many options with relationships. People do not just simply decide to be gay, so that fools like you can be judgemental over them, how about you butt out and let people be who they are?

If I choose to be judgemental over a homo then I will. You mean to tell me you've never judged anyone in your life? Hell yes you have. You just get all hypocritical and touchy about it when it comes to homosexuals, because you are probably bi or gay.

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

Some people make me laugh, judging people on their sexuality, for feelings beyond their control! Not all of us have to buy rep either.

I haven't bought rep actually. Just because I'm liked & make decent posts which means people rep me doesn't mean I buy it. Just because you make ****** posts which are stupid means you don't get rep. Boohoo. You make me laugh you complete hypocrite. I expect you judge people just as much as the next person does but when it's done to homos it's "wrong", haha now who's the one laughing!

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

You can neither firstly prove or disprove that gad exists the same as i cannot, and secondly prove that he created adam and eve. The bible has been amended so many times, and neither me or you were around at the time to prove anything, and lets just say ...... you must of heard of chinese whispers, people add bits on and take bits away!

Who is this 'gad' that you speak of??? Haha I assume you mean God. More contradicting crap coming out of your mouth yet again. You say I can't prove the Bible well how the hell can you say people don't choose to be gay? You don't know that whatsoever. Stop contradicting yourself - you're making yourself look a fool. Obviously the Bible was added to but that doesn't mean there isn't truth in there. If you write an article on something that happened, just because you change the words around doesn't make it any less truthful.
21-10-2007, 12:26 PM
FlyingJesus

Ok a couple of things then.

Firstly, to settle the Bible matter. It mentions quite explicitly in Leviticus that "man should not lie with man as he so lieth with woman", and also in various parts the Bible condemns sodomy (*******). Whether you believe in the Bible or not I don't care, I'm just stating the bare facts.

Secondly, I don't know if people here are believing in the idea of a "gay gene" but that's a load of balls - homosexuality, like any other relationshiplike train of thought, is a product of things that have happened to a person in life and how they perceive things. If this wasn't the case, it would be impossible that in South America there are places you can go for therapy to become straight (which I guess they have because they're heavily Catholic and people there don't want to be gay).
21-10-2007, 12:41 PM
:Liam

I personally believe the bible shouldnt be regarded as evidence nor should saying people are born gay because there is no proof to support either. I personally am an athiest and I believe homosexuality is down to having a difference in hormones. but anyway thats my belief, but it cant be regarded as evidence as to why a person is gay because theres no proof. Tbh were never gonna know why people are gay and we just have to accept the fact some people are gay and some are straight its a fact of life. Also saying that gay people have only been around in the past hundred years is a lie because people have had gay thoughts/been gay for thousands of years its just over that period of time homosexuality was seen as a taboo therefore it was kept a secret.
21-10-2007, 12:52 PM
FlyingJesus

It was hardly kept secret - the Bible tells of whole cities which condoned sodomy as a good thing, which would date back to several thousand BC. Also, the ancient Greeks believed that it was right for a tutor to have sex with his pupils (who would at the time have all been male) as it created a greater bond between them, and as someone mentioned the Romans took it up when they were away on long campaigns. In old Britain even it wasn't seen as a problem, Shakespeare's world certainly contained a lot of male-male relationships and no-one really cared. It was only really from the Victorian period onwards that it's been a hushed up issue.
21-10-2007, 12:56 PM
:Liam

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

It was hardly kept secret - the Bible tells of whole cities which condoned sodomy as a good thing, which would date back to several thousand BC. Also, the ancient Greeks believed that it was right for a tutor to have sex with his pupils (who would at the time have all been male) as it created a greater bond between them, and as someone mentioned the Romans took it up when they were away on long campaigns. In old Britain even it wasn't seen as a problem, Shakespeare's world certainly contained a lot of male-male relationships and no-one really cared. It was only really from the Victorian period onwards that it's been a hushed up issue.

As I said I do not regard the bible as evidence. Im saying in History. In periods such as the victorian period homosexuality was kept a secret. Yes homosexuality was mentioned in literature but if it actually happened it was a completely different story. There is also anthropological evidence in which certain tribes despise homosexuality/any homosexual thoughts and if a leader of a tribe found out someone was homosexual, they would of been killed and this still goes on today.
History cant really be regarded as evidence because any historic opinions can be twisted to support a persons view. Anthropology can be regarded as evidence however because its studying human behavior.
22-10-2007, 05:50 PM
fitcovboy

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Originally Posted by English

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He asked me a question, so therefore he was 'listening' to me you foolish child. I don't mind a bit of woman on woman, but when it's 2 butch lezzas then that's not good! Hating homosexuals is just as hypocritical as racism is.

Child? .... Hardly..... Listening? ... I think you mean reading! And no.... how very immature you do not mind two women..... As long as they are to your taste.... Shows your immaturity ...... so are you saying you’re a racist as well as a homophobe?

People get bullied everyday for stuff they can't help, I don't wanna hear your soppy story about homosexuals getting bullied. I'm not saying they chose it atall, but if the world started out with straight people then it must have come from somewhere & it wouldn't be genetic as they would have straight parents.

Where is it soppy then? I’m just stating facts.... but you only want the facts that you want..... Sorry it is an open post and I will write whatever I chose to.... and slightly obvious fact that it started somewhere.... as did the human race! And there are plenty of bisexual people that have had children.

If I choose to be judgemental over a homo then I will. You mean to tell me you've never judged anyone in your life? Hell yes you have. You just get all hypocritical and touchy about it when it comes to homosexuals, because you are probably bi or gay.

Whether or not I judge people is not the topic, however I do not judge people over race, sexuality, age, looks, or any other thing that is beyond their control.... shame you have not the intelligence to do the same, it easy to try and call someone names because they are gay or not the same race or religion ..... It’s also very childish.... But I suppose as you’re a child!

I haven't bought rep actually. Just because I'm liked & make decent posts which means people rep me doesn't mean I buy it. Just because you make ****** posts which are stupid means you don't get rep. Boohoo. You make me laugh you complete hypocrite. I expect you judge people just as much as the next person does but when it's done to homos it's "wrong", haha now who's the one laughing!

Your liked.... reading your posts.... your not liked ... more like you buy rep or give rep to recieve..... I can get that looked into the next time Sierk is on msn.... pointless rep gets removed! Resorting to swear words..... Shows your mentality. I am sure we covered the judgemental thing earlier in your post..... But still nothing new to go at hey.... Repetition.

Who is this 'gad' that you speak of??? Haha I assume you mean God. More contradicting crap coming out of your mouth yet again. You say I can't prove the Bible well how the hell can you say people don't choose to be gay? You don't know that whatsoever. Stop contradicting yourself - you're making yourself look a fool. Obviously the Bible was added to but that doesn't mean there isn't truth in there. If you write an article on something that happened, just because you change the words around doesn't make it any less truthful.

Oh dear one spelling error..... Glad you had a little intelligence to figure out the word.... hope it wasn’t too difficult for you! Where are the contradictions you write of? You cannot prove the bible..... I cannot prove that every single gay person does not choose it. I think you look like the fool now. And no there is changing the words to give a totally different meaning and then there is the addition and removal of certain facts ...... so over time what is right and what is wrong..... Who knows apart from the people that were present at the time? Also as there are many religions..... Which one is correct.... after all each has variations..... I should point out though..... This post is not about religion or the bible..... Maybe you would like to keep on subject!

I also see from your posts that moderators have had to intervene, generally for insulting other members..... I could see a few posts that have been missed.... and should I choose to moderate again in the future.... Well let’s just say I am on the ball ;)
22-10-2007, 06:17 PM
English

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

Child? .... Hardly..... Listening? ... I think you mean reading! And no.... how very immature you do not mind two women..... As long as they are to your taste.... Shows your immaturity ...... so are you saying you’re a racist as well as a homophobe?

I used the term listening as that is the term that you used when quoting me, however I used quotation marks as it was a term to be used loosely. Yeah man, shows my immaturity! No child it just shows I'm straight! Actually I'm not racist, just not keen on homosexuals. And bloody quote properly you illiterate fool.

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

Where is it soppy then? I’m just stating facts.... but you only want the facts that you want..... Sorry it is an open post and I will write whatever I chose to.... and slightly obvious fact that it started somewhere.... as did the human race! And there are plenty of bisexual people that have had children.

I was being sarcastic about it being soppy. Sorry but where does bisexual people having children come into this? I said that being gay isn't part of the genes/dna. Hell, just because your parents support a football team doesn't mean you support that football team. Exactly the same context there.

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

Whether or not I judge people is not the topic, however I do not judge people over race, sexuality, age, looks, or any other thing that is beyond their control.... shame you have not the intelligence to do the same, it easy to try and call someone names because they are gay or not the same race or religion ..... It’s also very childish.... But I suppose as you’re a child!

Actually judging people is the topic this has turned into. I extremely doubt you don't judge people and are just saying this to save the skin off your back. I expect you have judged people in your life & you're a liar if you say you aren't. People of a different religious background is nothing to do with this, we are on about homosexuals and how they are judged. I don't think you can call a 17 year old a child just because he has an opinion that conflicts with yours. If anything what you are saying is childish.

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

Your liked.... reading your posts.... your not liked ... more like you buy rep or give rep to recieve..... I can get that looked into the next time Sierk is on msn.... pointless rep gets removed! Resorting to swear words..... Shows your mentality. I am sure we covered the judgemental thing earlier in your post..... But still nothing new to go at hey.... Repetition.

For goodness sake learn to use the correct you're when saying something about me. Infact I barely ever rep anyone & I don't feel the need to buy rep. My rep has been received due to VIP & making good posts. You can check with any admin. Yeah you enjoy talking to sierk on msn, shows what a good life you lead talking to people about rep on msn!

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

Oh dear one spelling error..... Glad you had a little intelligence to figure out the word.... hope it wasn’t too difficult for you! Where are the contradictions you write of? You cannot prove the bible..... I cannot prove that every single gay person does not choose it. I think you look like the fool now. And no there is changing the words to give a totally different meaning and then there is the addition and removal of certain facts ...... so over time what is right and what is wrong..... Who knows apart from the people that were present at the time? Also as there are many religions..... Which one is correct.... after all each has variations..... I should point out though..... This post is not about religion or the bible..... Maybe you would like to keep on subject!
I also see from your posts that moderators have had to intervene, generally for insulting other members..... I could see a few posts that have been missed.... and should I choose to moderate again in the future.... Well let’s just say I am on the ball ;)

Now it's not just one spelling error you've made but several. I had the intelligence to figure it out but if you had any intelligence you could actually spell properly. Now asking me which religion is correct? LOL! What a ******* you actually are. No religion is correct, it's the way you interpret the religion as to which one you follow. Blimey you are really more stupid than I thought! You talk some talk but you are quite stupid yet try to hide it with your pro-homosexuality talk! And if you intend on moderating in the future I wish you the best of luck!
22-10-2007, 06:51 PM
fitcovboy

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Originally Posted by English

I used the term listening as that is the term that you used when quoting me, however I used quotation marks as it was a term to be used loosely. Yeah man, shows my immaturity! No child it just shows I'm straight! Actually I'm not racist, just not keen on homosexuals. And bloody quote properly you illiterate fool.

You’re not keen on homosexuals so you decide to post in the forum? Your life must be interesting! We already established I am not a child.... you do go on. And illiterate i am not.... so if you want to insult me.... it shows how silly you are, after receiving warnings for similar behaviour.

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Originally Posted by English

I was being sarcastic about it being soppy. Sorry but where does bisexual people having children come into this? I said that being gay isn't part of the genes/dna. Hell, just because your parents support a football team doesn't mean you support that football team. Exactly the same context there.

Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit! Bisexual people come into it because you implied only straight people have children! And you’re the one that tries to slate people over football teams.... earlier in this post.

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Originally Posted by English

Actually judging people is the topic this has turned into. I extremely doubt you don't judge people and are just saying this to save the skin off your back. I expect you have judged people in your life & you're a liar if you say you aren't. People of a different religious background is nothing to do with this, we are on about homosexuals and how they are judged. I don't think you can call a 17 year old a child just because he has an opinion that conflicts with yours. If anything what you are saying is childish.

You can doubt what you like, I do not care for you’re opinion, and I do not need to save the skin off my back, I also have no desire or need to prove myself to an immature child! Am I not correct with the fact that you are classed as an adult at the age of 18? Sometimes if you have nothing positive to add, then you should keep your opinions to yourself, but it just shows your immaturity once again!

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Originally Posted by English

For goodness sake learn to use the correct you're when saying something about me. Infact I barely ever rep anyone & I don't feel the need to buy rep. My rep has been received due to VIP & making good posts. You can check with any admin. Yeah you enjoy talking to sierk on msn, shows what a good life you lead talking to people about rep on msn!

I do talk about the site to Sierk on msn as I have had a lot to do with habbox, as he is the site owner, then obviously I do discuss things, not that it is any of your business! Having done webpage design, moderating and head rare values reporter, I had a bit to with the site but as I said it's nothing to do with you.

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Originally Posted by English

Now it's not just one spelling error you've made but several. I had the intelligence to figure it out but if you had any intelligence you could actually spell properly. Now asking me which religion is correct? LOL! What a ******* you actually are. No religion is correct, it's the way you interpret the religion as to which one you follow. Blimey you are really more stupid than I thought! You talk some talk but you are quite stupid yet try to hide it with your pro-homosexuality talk! And if you intend on moderating in the future I wish you the best of luck!

Back to the swear words, it just shows what a blot on society you really are; now I am not going to respond to your childish posts further! I have better things to do than to go around in circles with you. And i refuse to get into a battle of wits with you; I never attack anyone who's unarmed. I’m sorry, I’m not being rude; it’s just that you don’t matter.
22-10-2007, 07:11 PM
English

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

You’re not keen on homosexuals so you decide to post in the forum? Your life must be interesting! We already established I am not a child.... you do go on. And illiterate i am not.... so if you want to insult me.... it shows how silly you are, after receiving warnings for similar behaviour.

I posted in this thread as I saw the thread title whilst browsing 'New Posts'. You claim "My life must be interesting" yet that is sarcastic, which you later claim to be the lowest form of wit thus contradicting yourself. I know it's a phrase but it contradicts what you said about sarcasm below. Having a different opinion on homosexuals to you doesn't mean I shouldn't be able to post. You continue to use several full stops which are not needed & I don't see the point in the continuation of these.

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit! Bisexual people come into it because you implied only straight people have children! And you’re the one that tries to slate people over football teams.... earlier in this post.

As above regarding the sarcasm comment and how you used it also. I never once implied only straight people have children. Again you are wrong and are totally not understanding what I said. I said it has nothing to do with the genes/dna. Therefore sexuality isn't determined by genes/dna. I never once said only straight people have children. Care to quote where I said that? Though you won't be able to because I didn't. I don't see what's wrong with mocking a football team.

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

You can doubt what you like, I do not care for you’re opinion, and I do not need to save the skin off my back, I also have no desire or need to prove myself to an immature child! Am I not correct with the fact that you are classed as an adult at the age of 18? Sometimes if you have nothing positive to add, then you should keep your opinions to yourself, but it just shows your immaturity once again!

Yes I will doubt as I like. Because in 16/17 years I extremely doubt you have never pre-judged someone or thought something negative about someone. You have no need to prove, nor could you. And once again calling me an immature child, must I remind you that you are the one that plays Habbo - not me. I never claimed I was an adult, just not a child. A 17 year old is not a child. You've been negative towards me yet you contradict yourself by saying 'if you having nothing positive to add then you should keep your opinions to yourself' and I am really not sure you should be saying this & keep contradicting yourself.

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I do talk about the site to Sierk on msn as I have had a lot to do with habbox, as he is the site owner, then obviously I do discuss things, not that it is any of your business! Having done webpage design, moderating and head rare values reporter, I had a bit to with the site but as I said it's nothing to do with you.

Again you call me a child, yet you discuss this forum over msn with the owner because of your past jobs. How is that mature? I know of many people who have done more or even "higher" jobs than you but do not feel the need to continue to discuss such things or even talk to sierk, move on perhaps?

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

Back to the swear words, it just shows what a blot on society you really are; now I am not going to respond to your childish posts further! I have better things to do than to go around in circles with you. And i refuse to get into a battle of wits with you; I never attack anyone who's unarmed. I’m sorry, I’m not being rude; it’s just that you don’t matter.

So by saying swear words you are a blot on society? Excuse me child but the working man swears all the time & they pay your benefits and whatnot so I don't think you have the right to also imply they are blots on society. Let me see whether you go back on your word (and make up some stupid excuse) in which to reply to my post. I don't feel the need to 'arm' myself & I'm sure I matter to society more than you ever well. I'm not being rude, just speaking the truth.
23-10-2007, 10:57 AM
FlyingJesus

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Originally Posted by fitcovboy

illiterate i am not

lol sorry but that made me chuckle. also i havent bothered reading the argument with you and craig as im sure youre just insulting each other, so i leave you with this thought:

hello.

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