Hmmm, anyone feel like this?

No i have a hot figure

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Originally Posted by Joeyseph

No i have a hot figure

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Nice input, dude.

Don't try to lose weight, you aren't over weight and wha tyou are doing is going to damage your health, 1 meal a day is pretty stupid. I'm about 5"11/6" foot, and I weigh 11 stone, possibly more. I'm not fat at all either - infact I work out. I'm also only going on 16 next year so seriously I wouldn't worry about it.

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Originally Posted by Xzoid

I think my post came a bit late, I didn't realise all of the updates.

It certainly sounds like you have a lot going on and are a very busy person, I think you just need to slow things down. You may not want to but you're obviously very unstable/fragile and so I think the worst thing would be to have a boyfriend at the moment. It doesn't help you from reading your posts and I think it's best you be on your own or you find the perfect guy who actually does like, and the comment about your friends preffering the other girl? Well, no advice there really, that is a really horrible thing to do and I feel really sorry for you, thats kinda... horrible.

When I feel bad and stuff or things stick in my head, like that horrible comment, I know how it feels. Sometimes someones one laugh AT you or that one harsh comment can cut deep and stick in your mind and make you feel terrible. What helps me is eventually I go down to a boiling point. It happens every few months and one night, I'll just start crying, and when crying I write down everything thats going on in my mind, like, everything thats flowing through my head, and that way, you're, well I'm, getting it all out into the open without anyone judging me on it.

I don't know If I could reccommend that for you, I'm just saying thats how I deal with things. Its not pathetic either. Those comments are really harsh and your boyfriend doesn't seem to be all the good'a boyfriend he could be.

I don't know if this has helped or anything just thought I'd post this in relation to your most recent post.

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Oops , long time to reply, sorry. Haven't looked at this thread in a while.
But yeah, the middle paragraph prety much sums up how i feel.
Like ranodm nights I'll just randomly cry for no reason.
I broke up with my boyfriend last week because I was stressed out with everything.
School's not helping, I have so much work to do !
xox

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Originally Posted by Zedda

Oops , long time to reply, sorry. Haven't looked at this thread in a while.
But yeah, the middle paragraph prety much sums up how i feel.
Like ranodm nights I'll just randomly cry for no reason.
I broke up with my boyfriend last week because I was stressed out with everything.
School's not helping, I have so much work to do !
xox

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School's a common problem in depression cases like this, but the only thing you can do is maintain and stick at it and see it through or if you feel as if you cant go in explain to your Mum or go see the school counsellor, I did that for a few months. Its nice because its confidential

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Originally Posted by Xzoid

School's a common problem in depression cases like this, but the only thing you can do is maintain and stick at it and see it through or if you feel as if you cant go in explain to your Mum or go see the school counsellor, I did that for a few months. Its nice because its confidential

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Was it completely confidential? The old counsellor in my school didn't have that (for whatever reason :@), she told the headmaster about my friends feelings about self harm and he told her parents and advised her to seek professional help. They put her on medication which basically gave her depression cause she was actually told that she was feeling low despite that was how she always acted (like me, morbid as **** ;)) and not to concern herself with self harm despite the fact that she said she felt the desire to do it but never had and never intended to. So the counsellor took it completely out of context and in the end got fired :D. God my friend was pissed, she could have killed her!

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Originally Posted by Xzoid

School's a common problem in depression cases like this, but the only thing you can do is maintain and stick at it and see it through or if you feel as if you cant go in explain to your Mum or go see the school counsellor, I did that for a few months. Its nice because its confidential

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Hmm I've tried talking to my mum about it. Didn't really help at all.
But apparently I'm being proper ****** and lashing out at people without realising it.