Originally Posted by
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not reading anyone's posts but my question is why does there have to be a MOST important thing in life? or to make you happy? i don't think money is the MOST important, i don't think love is the most important or health is the most important for happiness. i think it's a combination of everything. say you have a lot of money but no-one to spend it with, then you're most likely not going to be happy. not as happy as you would be if you had someone you loved that you could share it with. & vice versa, if you have a lot of love to give - that's not enough. that's not going to save you from poverty and ill health. not one thing is more important than another. the middle sounds good. average amount of money & a whole lot of love > lots of money and no love. (coming from the girl that doesnt believe in love ok)
also bethie i don't get your argument in your last post, i live in a '****** little house' i guess - i mean we have the basics but its been done up to suit my mums style so it's very 'homely' and i wouldn't want anything else. i don't think i want to be 60 and in a HUGE house that i don't need.. that's kinda lonely, especially if you go from nothing to something big. also i've had lots of money at one point in my life, to dropping back to 'average' numbers, down to struggling - and i without a doubt prefer the middle. when my family had a relatively large income we still didn't spend money on anything extravagant or what we didn't need and decided to save it instead. thankfully we did cause that's the reason we can still live comfortably today. i would say gratitude and gratefulness is more important than the amount of money you have.