So you know our feelings better than ourselves then? :P And people take habits into account when deciding who to date... It'd be silly to say people didn't.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hollyoaks
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So you know our feelings better than ourselves then? :P And people take habits into account when deciding who to date... It'd be silly to say people didn't.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hollyoaks
Not really. Don't really like being around smokers. Puts me in a bad mood. Just can't stand the smell.
Yup, and I feel that once a person in a relationship and that person starts smoking, I would have to question why that person was starting to smoke in the first place.. if it's because they are being stressed out, or just doing it- Then you need to get them help, so that they can stop smoking- but if you originally went into the relationship with them saying, "we are not going to get into smoking," and then it happens, the person who started smoking sort of lied to you saying they weren't going to smoke...Quote:
Originally Posted by Kardan
But then again, with this attribute in a relationship it'll all come differently to everyone and not everyone is the same. So I see where, if I was a smoker- and the person I liked didn't smoke, I'd make an effort not to smoke to please them. But that's just me.
Definitely not. Not just the worry of their health (e.g. cancer), but also how they'd smell etc. Of course it really all depends, though.
It wouldn't be impossible for me but extremely unlikely - I couldn't begin to like a person if I knew they smoked, so I'd have to find out afterwards.
Nope haha :(
Absolutely hate it!
No I don't think so, I can't stand the smell
Nope! It's disgusting. Everything would stink.
Also, I don't know why, but I think a man smoking is more unattractive than a woman smoking...
But regardless, no, I wouldn't.
To the posts saying, 'if you truly love someone you wouldn't care if they smoke...' I'd never get close enough to be in love someone who smokes. You have to be attracted to someone you'd consider going around with which would then turn into love. I'd never be attracted in the first place, so it wouldn't be possible for me to fall in love with them...
For those saying it would stink, it's actually not that hard to cover it up and take care of yourself after it. I did this for years (although I was never on more than 5 a day) and my eagle eyed strict mum never noticed!!!
I don't think I could date someone who was addicted to anything, but a social smoker is fine.
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nope deff not it would bother me too much
I am a non-smoker, I hate everything about smoking, the smell alone makes me feel sick. Having said that it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world, I'd deal with it and probably encourage my partner to try and stop and support them in doing so. I'd also make it very clear not to smoke around me!