Is it harder being male or female?

Er idk but as peoplr have said its based on periods and pregnancy for me.

Yh sure you get called gay but so do females yh sure you cant buy pink clothes but sometimes girls have the problem with buying like a dark blue tshirt or w.e

And girls get told **** about having shorr hair saying they look like a guy and that idk just saying off of what bloop said

I think females have it harder the amount of days ive had to cancel or stay off sick bcos of pms or w.e is ridiculous nd yh I can go drs but it hasnt helped kk

Im incredibly tired and off sick rn (y) so none of this probs makes sense

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Originally Posted by bloop

Males.

We're expected to do everything and be a 'bigger man' as compared to one of an opposite gender like wot here you are wanting gender equality and then again you still want us guys to do stuff for u um

Its not that I hv something against helping ppl but when I get crap like HOW CN U ASK A GIRL TO DO THINGSS!?? BUT YR A GUYYYYYY its rlly annoying. Rlly.

And typically you can't like girl stuff like girl colour eg pink without getting stereotyped so hard but a girl can like supposedly guy colours eg black and blue

Oh and getting kicked in the balls is like thousand time worse than pregnancy I heard

And wait till u hv an annoying thing potruding frm yr pants lul and it gets hard and what if it happens in class or in public awks much

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To me black and blue and pink aren't like specific to a gender

Correct me if im wrong pls someone lmao

Idk why but hearing moaning about erections really bores me like yeah its awkward but how is that a reason that men have it harder, no pun intended.

I think one reason men get asked to do stuff like that is cos they act like a big man, and play on this attitude that everyone will play along with.

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Originally Posted by bloop

Males.

We're expected to do everything and be a 'bigger man' as compared to one of an opposite gender like wot here you are wanting gender equality and then again you still want us guys to do stuff for u um

Its not that I hv something against helping ppl but when I get crap like HOW CN U ASK A GIRL TO DO THINGSS!?? BUT YR A GUYYYYYY its rlly annoying. Rlly.

And typically you can't like girl stuff like girl colour eg pink without getting stereotyped so hard but a girl can like supposedly guy colours eg black and blue

Oh and getting kicked in the balls is like thousand time worse than pregnancy I heard

And wait till u hv an annoying thing potruding frm yr pants lul and it gets hard and what if it happens in class or in public awks much

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yeah but if u have a boner do u get girls coming up to u and touching lol cause I had guys touching my arse and boobs, pulling my top up and pinging my bra strap. N u may never be kicked in the balls ever whilst females go through pain every month lol

definatly tougher for us men, we have to put up with everything and the worst feeling and pain in the world is being hit in the balls. girls have it easy and as a bonus for the easy thing of having a child they get between 6 and 12 months off work! its totally unfair, then the hard part always falls on the man anyways cos evryone knows women are complete lazy swines!

harder for females

why are the boys in this thread moaning about being hit in the balls why do u put urself in those situations :S

lemons mate what u chattin *REMOVED* for. ill hit u in the balls then u decide if femals have it worse. and we dont put ourselfs in that situation it happens mate. its girsl who put themself in pregnancy situations by choosing not to use protection.

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Originally Posted by IzzyUhh

Er idk but as peoplr have said its based on periods and pregnancy for me.

Yh sure you get called gay but so do females yh sure you cant buy pink clothes but sometimes girls have the problem with buying like a dark blue tshirt or w.e

And girls get told **** about having shorr hair saying they look like a guy and that idk just saying off of what bloop said

I think females have it harder the amount of days ive had to cancel or stay off sick bcos of pms or w.e is ridiculous nd yh I can go drs but it hasnt helped kk

Im incredibly tired and off sick rn (y) so none of this probs makes sense



To me black and blue and pink aren't like specific to a gender

Correct me if im wrong pls someone lmao

Idk why but hearing moaning about erections really bores me like yeah its awkward but how is that a reason that men have it harder, no pun intended.

I think one reason men get asked to do stuff like that is cos they act like a big man, and play on this attitude that everyone will play along with.

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Um tired and sick of me or tired and sick irl. If its the latter gws :)

Thre are like distinct girl stuff but technically not guy stuff. Eg idk if this is the wrong example but let's just say girls can play lego and barbies and guys as long as u touch those dolls u get looked at strangely and girls can like um hold hands with their bffs and unhook each other bra straps (girls at my sch used to do tht lmao) but for guys we can't just go arnd and do tht

And yes guys are expected to tolerate everything n tbh I don't even gaf what peoples gender is and I've got **** like cuz she's a girl you must give way

Real life story once I got morning wood and my mum was in my room shouting at me to get up and refused to leave my room and I grasped onto my blanket against my crotch and got up it was so embarrassing omg (she didn't say anything tho lul)

Hate that we guys sexual arouse-ment is visible zzz

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Originally Posted by bloop

Um tired and sick of me or tired and sick irl. If its the latter gws :)

Thre are like distinct girl stuff but technically not guy stuff. Eg idk if this is the wrong example but let's just say girls can play lego and barbies and guys as long as u touch those dolls u get looked at strangely and girls can like um hold hands with their bffs and unhook each other bra straps (girls at my sch used to do tht lmao) but for guys we can't just go arnd and do tht

And yes guys are expected to tolerate everything n tbh I don't even gaf what peoples gender is and I've got **** like cuz she's a girl you must give way

Real life story once I got morning wood and my mum was in my room shouting at me to get up and refused to leave my room and I grasped onto my blanket against my crotch and got up it was so embarrassing omg (she didn't say anything tho lul)

Hate that we guys sexual arouse-ment is visible zzz

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No im like sick irl and had no sleep :p

Yeah thts understandable but idk erections to me dont come across like something difficult to live with

Like they're natural like periods and pregnancy, but periods and pregnancy hurt and they last longer.

Nd idk thts just who you're around, not your gender. I used to get called a boy for wanting to skateboard or play lego, but my current friends liked the same as me so they never said **** about it when we were younger. Its nothing on gender I dont think, its to do with the nasty ass people you can be around

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lemons mate what u chattin *REMOVED* for. ill hit u in the balls then u decide if femals have it worse. and we dont put ourselfs in that situation it happens mate. its girsl who put themself in pregnancy situations by choosing not to use protection.

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LOSER!

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LOSER!

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come at me bra

u not win nowt cos u lose evrything cos you suck ha ah ha ah

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Originally Posted by Shar

From what I've seen with my male relatives it seems harder to be a male because of the expectations other people have for them as a male.

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never really talked to anyone about this type of thing, but i'm glad some out here empathises with it. personally i think i'd be in a better situation as a current generation white woman, but my issues shouldn't get in the way of the general discussion, in which case i would side with it harder being female.