Mum knows lol

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Originally Posted by HELPER-Ghost

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Well most my family know that im gay now, and that i have a boyfriend.. they've also met him
So its going pretty well.. they were all really accepting

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Good to hear it's going well.

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Originally Posted by William93

Oh come on, if you had the chance to read through your siblings chat logs, wouldn't you?

I know I would.

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Yh but I'd keep it to myself, especially if it was something like that.

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Originally Posted by HELPER-Ghost

Well yh my sister found out im gay cause she read my chatlogs (Yes i was stupid enough to not delete/disable them) And then she told my mum :rolleyes:

Apparently my mum was like "If thats how he is, thats how he is" and blabla
Now i have to wait for "a talk" with her.

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A "talk" about what?

"I know what it's like to be gay, until I met your father..."

Read your sister's chatlogs or just keep making sly remarks about how nosey she is :P

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Originally Posted by GommeInc

A "talk" about what?

"I know what it's like to be gay, until I met your father..."

Read your sister's chatlogs or just keep making sly remarks about how nosey she is :P

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'A talk' usually consists of things like,

"How long have you known you was gay?"
"have you got a boyfriend"
"How do you actually KNOW you are gay?"
"You have to be careful and use protection... blahblahalbha aids this aids that blahblahblah"

It will be awkward for a couple of days but after that it's fine :) My mums knew since I was about 14 I'm 16 now and she always is throwing homophobic language at me :(((((((((( for a jk obv but lol!

Good luck :)

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Lmao yeah. It'll include all of that xD

All I can say is, be who you want to be. Don't worry about your mum. :)

Good luck xo

better out than in to be honest, nothing to be ashamed of, if they can't accept you then their loss. :)

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Originally Posted by Gay

'A talk' usually consists of things like,

"How long have you known you was gay?"
"have you got a boyfriend"
"How do you actually KNOW you are gay?"
"You have to be careful and use protection... blahblahalbha aids this aids that blahblahblah"

It will be awkward for a couple of days but after that it's fine :) My mums knew since I was about 14 I'm 16 now and she always is throwing homophobic language at me :(((((((((( for a jk obv but lol!

Good luck :)

xx

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What a pointless and patronising talk :P Do they really need to know all that stuff? If you were straight, would they give the same sort of speech? It's allcommon sense/knowledge anyway and sorta like twisting a knife in an uncomfortable flesh wound if anything... "OH good, you're gay! Have you a got boyfriend, hmmm?" The fact she said she wants to "talk" about it makes it seem more like a drug addiction than a way of life :/

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Originally Posted by GommeInc

What a pointless and patronising talk :P Do they really need to know all that stuff? If you were straight, would they give the same sort of speech? It's allcommon sense/knowledge anyway and sorta like twisting a knife in an uncomfortable flesh wound if anything... "OH good, you're gay! Have you a got boyfriend, hmmm?" The fact she said she wants to "talk" about it makes it seem more like a drug addiction than a way of life :/

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Lol yeah I suppose so, but then again I suppose it's good to talk to know what's going on etc etc and to show that you are okay with it and everything blahblah. S'all good though if the parents okayz with it. One of my mums mates is a lesbian and she told her mum and her mum said, "You're effing disgusting, I never want to see you again!" so yeah it can be pretty bad haha! Luckily my 'rents aint like that. ;)

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Originally Posted by Bomb-Head

What on earth was your sister doing reading your chat logs anyway? How disrespectful.

As for telling your mum - she could've at least spoken with you about it first..

Anyway you have nothing to be ashamed of :)

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Yeah! Look. Dont worry if your mom tells you off or something. Its who you are so be it!

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Originally Posted by Southside5050

Yeah! Look. Dont worry if your mom tells you off or something. Its who you are so be it!

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Lol it's not as simple as that :( he's obviously going to be worried, some parents just wouldn't want anything to do with their child if that came out!