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young love ;D
Lol -.-Quote:
Originally Posted by Carlos
And IMPO age doesnt matter, maturity does. Most year 10s (my year) in my school have the maturity level of a year 7, and vice versa. Thats why I dont believe in the "age of consent," it's whenever you're mature enough to handle the consequences.
If she is one of the more mature year 7s, I would say go for it. But YOU also have to be mature enough to take the consequences. By that, I mean the pee-takes, people calling you a paedo and the such.
Good luck :)
Wait till shes 13 and your 15, then itll took better, trust me
I like this girl whos 13 and im 16 :(
im year 10 and my girlfriend's in year 9... and people say i'm bad O_o
12 and 14 is kinda young. But 13 and 15 seems fine to me. :]
what you mean look better, its up to him what he doesQuote:
Originally Posted by xenex
as long as they don't have intercourse then he can go out with her, its your choice but think about it this way, my parents have a 2 year gap and most parents have a simliar age gap sometimes around 4 years, so its simliar circumstances. like people said you might get ridiculed for it by people at school because for example a person in my year (11) goes out with a year 8 and everyone calls him a paedo lol. but if you like this girl then just ignore it and build the relationship stronger in the holidays and you should be fine in a few years with no worries at all :)
I would probably wait a few years as in school the age differnce seems rather more significant than if you have left school etc.
Meeh, when i was 11 i had a 14 year old boyf. Lol. My brother and cousins always used to take the mick out of my little boyf and im sure some kids in school must have given him some crud about it but nothing to terrible. We wer "together" for a year. Wouldnt count him as a serious boyf thou as i was so young and it was more of a friendship really.
When i was 12 i had a 14 year old boyfriend and was with him till i was 15 and at the time i thought it was really serious. I grew up, realised i was just a little girl trying to be mature.
At that age its all really about friendships. I had a really good friendship with both my "boyfriends" when i was young but after we "split up" i didnt speak to either of them so i ended up losing a friend. Meh, i dunno.
Go for it but try and not take it all to seriously. Have fun.
About the whole parent age gap thing.
My real dads like mid 40s and his wife is like 24/25 or sumit. How bout that for an age gap :|
dude if u think about it ladz of ur age are not supposed to approach girlz of that age in that way.... if you were 23 and she was 20.... well thats an normall matta but dude think about what ur friends would say and think about you future in relationships at ur skwl .....