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25-01-2009, 03:05 AM
Jord

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Originally Posted by Dictionaries.

Actually, saying that any video can be transferred to webcam with the right software.

Agree with him ^

That is true theres videos on youtube called like msnpranks or something where they make like sex shows go on webcam and fool people
25-01-2009, 03:06 AM
Middlesbrough

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Originally Posted by ,Lexiilu

Look, if you're saying that e-daters don't have lives, you just dissed quite a few people on habbox staff or ex habbox staff. I think it's rude that you're telling people who can't control their feelings that they have no lives. Besides, have you ever fallen in love or liked someone over the internet?

Well it seems i did just 'Diss' them, if you can't control your feelings then learn to, at the end of the day its the internet, the answer to your question is no.
I would also like to hear your answers to my other statements.
25-01-2009, 03:07 AM
Favourtism

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Originally Posted by Dictionaries.

But tbh it is just pixels, that the simple fact, the other fact is that people judge personality over looks, in real life or not so not many people base love on looks. At the end of the day why would you even want to e-date, is it simply the fact that nobody likes you in real life, cause that's what it looks like from the majority's point of view.

I somehow doubt that you would choose a VBF over a real life one, if you do i don't see you having much of a life (may offend but i'm saying it lightly) Imagine what you would think of yourself for choosing a virtual boyfriend, from habbo or facebook over a boyfriend in real life.

Furthermore, any long range relationship struggles and eventually ends, this is even if you used to know them, at the end of the day you can't trust the person and the person can't trust you.

Thats quite insulting and wrong. People like me in real life, but why does that mean I cannot have freinds online. Its clear that the majority are against it because;
They will get called names if they do it
They cut themselves off online and do not become freindly with anyway
Associate with people who arent freindly

Its not just going on Habbo like
'HI BABE, LUV U, WANNA GET IN DIS MODE BED!". You understand weeks, months of talking will almost definately turn into freindship if your being yourself.

Long relationships dont struggle if you actually really like the person, speak regularly, aren't sex crazed/addicted, are determined. I know someone who started off by calling someone, via getting number from a freind, and he had only seen a picture of her. They talked and texted for months, then were able to meet up and now they're in late 20's and live together happily and married ;P Obviously, thats not gunna happen to a lot of people but real life relationships have something like a 50% divorce rate now and stuff so...

I think that knowing someone online builds up a freindship etc and makes you know the person more.

/debate ;D (They should set a debate up on this, if there isnt one earlier -pms matt-)
25-01-2009, 03:08 AM
,Lexiilu

Then you shouldn't be commenting on something you have no experience with. I on the other hand do have experience, so I've experienced most of what I've said myself, or I know someone who has. Its nearly impossible to completely control emotions, especially love as you don't usually choose who you love, it's been proven so look it up if you don't believe me.
25-01-2009, 03:15 AM
Middlesbrough

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Originally Posted by ,Lexiilu

Then you shouldn't be commenting on something you have no experience with. I on the other hand do have experience, so I've experienced most of what I've said myself, or I know someone who has. Its nearly impossible to completely control emotions, especially love as you don't usually choose who you love, it's been proven so look it up if you don't believe me.

I have a lot of experience dealing with friends who have e-dated, they know it ends eventually, just faster than a normal relationship, very rarely i see an e-relationship last 2 months+, it is actually possible to control emotions, I know this because i do it regularly don't you think I've fallen in love and had to stop myself from doing it? If you ever meet someone you love, you have to keep yourself controlled. Then again Lexi, your thirteen/fourteen,I doubt you know the meaning of love yet.

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Originally Posted by Favourtism

Thats quite insulting and wrong. People like me in real life, but why does that mean I cannot have freinds online. Its clear that the majority are against it because;
They will get called names if they do it
They cut themselves off online and do not become freindly with anyway
Associate with people who arent freindly

Its not just going on Habbo like
'HI BABE, LUV U, WANNA GET IN DIS MODE BED!". You understand weeks, months of talking will almost definately turn into freindship if your being yourself.

Long relationships dont struggle if you actually really like the person, speak regularly, aren't sex crazed/addicted, are determined. I know someone who started off by calling someone, via getting number from a freind, and he had only seen a picture of her. They talked and texted for months, then were able to meet up and now they're in late 20's and live together happily and married ;P Obviously, thats not gunna happen to a lot of people but real life relationships have something like a 50% divorce rate now and stuff so...

I think that knowing someone online builds up a freindship etc and makes you know the person more.

/debate ;D (They should set a debate up on this, if there isnt one earlier -pms matt-)

Actually if you research what your saying at least 8/10 long range relationships fail, its a known fact they never work simply because of the trust factor. To be completely honest even if you weren't sex-crazed you would still have nobody to physically love, hug and kiss, sex isn't the only factor of a relationship.
25-01-2009, 03:20 AM
,Lexiilu

You wouldn't know whether I do or don't tbh unless I told you. And I have. e-Relationships do last, I have a friend whose been dating her boyfriend for over 4 months already and they're quite happy. It's one of my very few r.l friends that actually understands e-dating, but she does and I've watched her and I can assure you that there's nothing wrong with what she's doing or what I'm doing for that matter. You make it sound like it's so easy not to fall in love with someone, when in reality, it isn't. Most people can't let themselves part from the person they love. I was in love with my ex for awhile until I finally got over him and the person I like now is an e-friend. So, it's not that easy.
25-01-2009, 03:23 AM
Middlesbrough

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Originally Posted by ,Lexiilu

You wouldn't know whether I do or don't tbh unless I told you. And I have. e-Relationships do last, I have a friend whose been dating her boyfriend for over 4 months already and they're quite happy. It's one of my very few r.l friends that actually understands e-dating, but she does and I've watched her and I can assure you that there's nothing wrong with what she's doing or what I'm doing for that matter. You make it sound like it's so easy not to fall in love with someone, when in reality, it isn't. Most people can't let themselves part from the person they love. I was in love with my ex for awhile until I finally got over him and the person I like it now an e-friend. So, it's not that easy.

So basically you've just said you dumped your real life boyfriend for an e-bf?
That's just not right tbh and it is quite easy not to fall in love with someone, you can't stop it but you can finish it, I'm sure a thirteen year old doesn't have the slightest clue about love, I'm 16 and I'm still unsure about what love is and who i do love, love is a confusing thing that can't be done over the internet and that really is the end of it.
25-01-2009, 03:24 AM
Favourtism

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Originally Posted by Dictionaries.

I have a lot of experience dealing with friends who have e-dated, they know it ends eventually, just faster than a normal relationship, very rarely i see an e-relationship last 2 months+, it is actually possible to control emotions, I know this because i do it regularly don't you think I've fallen in love and had to stop myself from doing it? If you ever meet someone you love, you have to keep yourself controlled. Then again Lexi, your thirteen/fourteen,I doubt you know the meaning of love yet.

Actually if you research what your saying at least 8/10 long range relationships fail, its a known fact they never work simply because of the trust factor. To be completely honest even if you weren't sex-crazed you would still have nobody to physically love, hug and kiss, sex isn't the only factor of a relationship.

I dont intend to reseach at 3am hehe. I saw it in an article the other day so yeah.

Yeah but if you really love someone, you could wait until you meetup etc. It would be hard but is doable if you feel that way towards someone.
25-01-2009, 03:27 AM
,Lexiilu

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Originally Posted by Dictionaries.

So basically you've just said you dumped your real life boyfriend for an e-bf?
That's just not right tbh and it is quite easy not to fall in love with someone, you can't stop it but you can finish it, I'm sure a thirteen year old doesn't have the slightest clue about love, I'm 16 and I'm still unsure about what love is and who i do love, love is a confusing thing that can't be done over the internet and that really is the end of it.

Don't twist my words please. I didn't say that I dumped my r.l bf for an ebf. We broke up awhile ago and it was to completely unrelated issues. And you can't always finish it. Most people can't bring themselves to.
25-01-2009, 03:29 AM
Middlesbrough

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Originally Posted by Favourtism

I dont intend to reseach at 3am hehe. I saw it in an article the other day so yeah.

Yeah but if you really love someone, you could wait until you meetup etc. It would be hard but is doable if you feel that way towards someone.

I was kind of wondering how to reply to this, but I know how ;).
Yeah but if you really love someone it doesn't give them a reason to love you, as I said the trust barrier isn't there, relationships have to be built on trust, no trust = no relationship in all honesty.

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Originally Posted by ,Lexiilu

Don't twist my words please. I didn't say that I dumped my r.l bf for an ebf. We broke up awhile ago and it was to completely unrelated issues. And you can't always finish it. Most people can't bring themselves to.

I wasn't intending to twist your words, that's what i thought you ment. What do you mean by finish 'it' - once i understand ill show my views.

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