Do you think you choose your sexual orientation?

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Originally Posted by !Landon

My views operate in both ways.

This was previously mentioned, but I think that as a result of me never having a true role model as a man, I get along with women much easier than men. As well, I also believe that it's in our genes. I don't think that we necessarily have much of a mental choice.

But again, my main influence is the way that I cooperate with both genders.

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If you get along easier with women is it not much simpler to enter relationships with them rather than men?

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Originally Posted by Kyle

If you get along easier with women is it not much simpler to enter relationships with them rather than men?

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I have problems interacting in a positive way with men. So, in a sense, I am sure it is.

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Originally Posted by !Landon

I have problems interacting in a positive way with men. So, in a sense, I am sure it is.

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In which case what bearing does this have on your sexuality?

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Originally Posted by Kyle

In which case what bearing does this have on your sexuality?

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It gives me the willingness to have confidence around women.

And again, this is not the only set reason that I feel I am straight. I've grown up with it and have never become attracted to men.

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Originally Posted by !Landon

It gives me the willingness to have confidence around women.

And again, this is not the only set reason that I feel I am straight. I've grown up with it and have never become attracted to men.

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OH I thought you were gay pmsl that makes a LOT more sense! Interesting that normally it's boys with single mothers who turn out gay.

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Originally Posted by Kyle

OH I thought you were gay pmsl that makes a LOT more sense! Interesting that normally it's boys with single mothers who turn out gay.

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How did you think I was gay? Lol. The fact that I didn't mention my father? aha

i think it's all about experimenting with either thoughts or actions in early life to see where you're at your happinest - for example during year 7 people thought I was gay ( I was and still do have feminine qualities ) and it even made me question my orientation, so it can also be environmental factors that can sway decisions and feelings.

aaaaaaand then I got a girlfriend and realised i'm very straight ;)