She hardly ever comes to school. We thought she dropped out. But now shes usualy comes once a week. Can a 14 year old go out with a 23 year old?
She hardly ever comes to school. We thought she dropped out. But now shes usualy comes once a week. Can a 14 year old go out with a 23 year old?
i fink its agenst the law i have a girl like that she is 13 and says she is goin out with a 27 year old wich i fink is bs
It's against the law if they're having a sexual relationship. Otherwise it's entirely legal, but seeing as how this chap's in his 20's and she's skipping school to be with him, I'd say she's probably bouncing in his lap quite a lot.
Does her mother know about this?
Some good advice there, Scot ;)
I'd say you need to make her realise this guy is sick ;)
does he know how old she is?
everyone automatically thinks its his fault, but she mite have told him shes older, and thats why he doesnt make her go school, coz he doesnt know shes still in school.
then again, if shes 14, its unlikely he thinks shes like 18 or so.
maybe you should sit her down + have a serious chat with her about it.
if he knows how old she is, its deffinately wrong. not against the law (unless its a sexual relationship) but still, its wrong.
yeah im pretty sure that he thinks she's older than she is. it's easy for a girl to make themselves look older using certain make-up and the like.Quote:
Originally Posted by Assid_Rane
Technically, no this is not against the law, unless they are having a sexual relationship, or any sexual contact.
Speak to her, and ask her if their relationship is physical, if it is then you really need to be concerned. You could perhaps speak to her parents about it, and they would perhaps be able to prevent her from seeing him.
If you don't think you would be able to do this, you could even speak to your own parents, or perhaps your school guidance teacher, or a teacher you trust who should be able to help point you in the right direction to stop this.
It's good you are aware of this though, and that your concerned about your friends! :]
And the times she comes to school, shes really tired and she has bags under her eyes and looks like shes been up all night. Before she was seeing him, she was so pretty all the guys liked her, (including me).
Now we think she has problems. :$
It's perfectly legal for couple of any age difference to see each other and have an intimate relationship. A parent of the younger partner may seek to oppose the relationship but without proof that sexual activity is taking place, nothing can be done.
As to the bags and all nighter problem, it may be down to something completely different to the whole boyfriend scenario. She may have family problems, suffer from depression, or any other number of things.