Why is it that all relationships bugger up. I've been with the same person since April 2nd now, we've been through a hell of alot together. Yeah, we met on the internet, not exactly the best circumstances no, but I have met him in real life and will continue too, if things go the the way I hope.. But the thing is, at first it was gret, no problems what so ever, and he ment the world to me. We met up, 2 of our other net friends came aswell, and it was a great day. The minute we got back we arranged to meet again, and it was all planned and everything, he was even going to ask if I could stop over the night, as he lives a good 2 hours away. But then, the day before the meet approached, I was talking to him on msn, and then he suddenly goes offline. So I wait a few minutes, nothing. then I get a text off him saying 'Don't come down tomorrow, I don't want to see you' By this yeah, I was pretty upset and shocked. Later on that day I tried ringing his house, and his mum picked up, I asked if he was there, she hesitated, whispered somtihng to someone close by and then said hes out and slammed the phone down. An hour or so later, his dad phones me and has a go at me, says I'm not allowed to see him until I'm 18. And that if I was to contact him again or go to his house that I'd suffer the consiquences. Yeah I see that as a threat.. But I did contact him, I witheld my number and rung until he picked up - which was never. Also, got 2 girls to ring and ask for him, but no, his parents wern't having none of it. no hear from him for what, over a month, nearly 2.. I was really upset, you can ask anyone who knows me well enough to know what I was going through. but after about a month, he got his mobile back, and we started texting loads. But then he forgot to delete the texts from me and his dad read his phone. Obviously it got taken and I got another threatening lecture from his dad. But then about 2 weeks after that [which was about a week ago now] He got his internet back, and he seemed not to be intrested at all.. So I spoke about splitting, but then he gave me stuff like. "Oh how could you, all we been through, I car about you." ect. ect. Then for a few days he seemed to act normal, and now hes computer has just 'broke' and he is ignoring my texts, but he doesn't want to split up.
Am I being strung along, I really don't know WHATS going on and its really getting to me.. Also, his dad did say a few other things that I won't post obn the forum. but I really need help. I'm so confused about what I should do and stuff.. Never really done this before so. If you can't be bothered to read it all [which most of you won't] don't reply because you proaly won't get the full story.
But if you did read it all, thanks, and what should I do? :(
