I feel ashamed.

Ok, im 15 years old and i havnt 'got off with somone'. Ive been out with a girl in year 8 and all we did was like hug..

Recently ive been wanting a gf and somone likes me who i like. But i dont feel comfortable with the 'getting of bit' ive never done it before but most people my age have. :(

Anyone help? :(

its not a race to make out or get off with people, it takes time and i spec ur partner would be as much scared as you, or if they have got of before, let them take lead, it will come to you nautrally, but if u dont feel comfortable with it just hug and wait for the relationship to develpe (sp?) and really if u havnt got off before, u shouldnt worry u would soon get use to it, and if ur partner really does like you it shouldnt matter if u havnt before or unexperirence in making out?geting off what ever u wanna call it,

Go for it,and see how it turns out, u dont always have to make out to prove that you like?love eaxh other just hugging and holding hands etc can show effection for each other

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Originally Posted by Nightrose

its not a race to make out or get off with people, it takes time and i spec ur partner would be as much scared as you, or if they have got of before, let them take lead, it will come to you nautrally, but if u dont feel comfortable with it just hug and wait for the relationship to develpe (sp?) and really if u havnt got off before, u shouldnt worry u would soon get use to it, and if ur partner really does like you it shouldnt matter if u havnt before or unexperirence in making out?geting off what ever u wanna call it,

Go for it,and see how it turns out, u dont always have to make out to prove that you like?love eaxh other just hugging and holding hands etc can show effection for each other

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Thanks, anyone else got any views?

some people don't like getting off.
you don't have too :)

If you want to though, should wait till you feel ready too and all that stuff

FYI ILU NIXT.

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Originally Posted by delicious

some people don't like getting off.
you don't have too :)

If you want to though, should wait till you feel ready too and all that shiz.

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mm. another problem is im in year 10 but 'the girl' is in year 8. Much of a problem? Only 2 years. ;l

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Originally Posted by Dude_I_Like_You

mm. another problem is im in year 10 but 'the girl' is in year 8. Much of a problem? Only 2 years. ;l

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not really would that make her .. 13/14 if that right it should be cool well thats what I think. Also its not a race if it was I'm definetly losing as I'm 17 and havn't even had a proper relationship I just wanna meet the right girl at the right time and fall in lover corny huh?

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Originally Posted by Dude_I_Like_You

mm. another problem is im in year 10 but 'the girl' is in year 8. Much of a problem? Only 2 years. ;l

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2 years is nothing :]

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Originally Posted by Dan2nd

not really would that make her .. 13/14 if that right it should be cool well thats what I think. Also its not a race if it was I'm definetly losing as I'm 17 and havn't even had a proper relationship I just wanna meet the right girl at the right time and fall in lover corny huh?

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lol thats kl fnx

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Originally Posted by delicious

2 years is nothing :]

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thats good then [:

I'm going to ignore the year 8 part, and just say, if you don't do it now, you'll be like the 40 year old virgin, worried when you're older. What's worse, inexperienced year 10 or inexperienced 40 year old? You decide mate.

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Originally Posted by Rizla

I'm going to ignore the year 8 part, and just say, if you don't do it now, you'll be like the 40 year old virgin, worried when you're older. What's worse, inexperienced year 10 or inexperienced 40 year old? You decide mate.

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Everyone has their own pace?