Can't stop thinking about her!

Ok well i still like this girl after quite a while and ive known her for about 3/4years? Basically im short for my age and have really bad eczema. Well i also got bullied from year 3 til... now and i have a really low self esteem.. i havent really gone out much and haven't seen her in about a week and she lives on my road :l... Everything reminds me of her though...even naruto! I just really like her and i just dont have the guts really to ask her out or anything. My other friends on my road even say she likes me but i don't see that, she acts the same to the my other friend (who is a boy) although she had kept inviting me round her house after school everyday for like 2weeks (nothing happened but we were alone xD)


Well im just really not sure what to do..

Edited by lAscend (Forum Moderator): Thread closed due to bumping.

well, i think you should go.
don't sit at home wondering if she likes you.
even if you think she doesn't go because you never know, she's probably the same way as you.
low self esteem & scared to go & talk to you.
just try it.
it's best you try.
you'll never know unless you do.

I'd say she does like you.
Invite her out with your friends say she can bring some of her friends if you don't feel to confident, or invite her round your house or ask if she wants to go see a movie together or something along them lines. While you are out with her spend most of your time with her, drop compliments in while talking to her but not all the time.

You really do just have to go for it. After going out with her a few times invite her round your house or if she invites you around hers when you think the moment is right tell her how you feel.

Best of luck with this.

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Originally Posted by lAdmire

well, i think you should go.
don't sit at home wondering if she likes you.
even if you think she doesn't go because you never know, she's probably the same way as you.
low self esteem & scared to go & talk to you.
just try it.
it's best you try.
you'll never know unless you do.

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she doesnt seem like she does and i just thought no one would like me how i am right now... until someone who is on this forum said they liked me when i was even worse... so that really boosted me up but i just dont know

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Originally Posted by Cwmbran

I'd say she does like you.
Invite her out with your friends say she can bring some of her friends if you don't feel to confident, or invite her round your house or ask if she wants to go see a movie together or something along them lines. While you are out with her spend most of your time with her, drop compliments in while talking to her but not all the time.

You really do just have to go for it. After going out with her a few times invite her round your house or if she invites you around hers when you think the moment is right tell her how you feel.

Best of luck with this.

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yeah i may go ask her to cinema, haha rush hour 3? :P

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Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo

yeah i may go ask her to cinema, haha rush hour 3? :P

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Definately. Something funny you two can both laugh at and talk about afterwards.

Go for it, most girls have a funny way of showing if they like you or not anyway :) rush hour 3 is great too :P

give her it hard :)

OJJJJ


urm well just text her or something, i think texting is easier.

Look my friend, its a girl.
if she says no, you can still be friends.
its not the end of the world, if you dont ask now, she might get a bf soon. ;)
be strong and DO IT!

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Originally Posted by Boro-fan2k4

give her it hard :)

OJJJJ


urm well just text her or something, i think texting is easier.

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ughh i really wouldnt like to do the texting thing XD

also the thing im worried about is ruining our friendship..

Well you shouldn't worry about wrecking your friendship because a while back a friend of mine asked me out but I said "I don't think I'm ready for another relationship, but we can always go to the cinema as mates." And we did, and now we are better friends than ever before. :)

And from there it's less of a jump to ask again because you know each other better. ;)