Am I the problem?

I was speaking to girlfriend on MSN last night and we've only been together for just over 3 weeks. I'm 16 and My Girlfriend is 15, everytime when I see her she's always with her mates.

I have nothing against her friends, but I would really like to spend so time with her. But when I asked if she wanted to come around mine she was like "Uhm what could we do". Therefore I was like Watch a film and stuff go on the computer play guitar hero and have dinner at my house.

What really she shocked me she said "Omg, that'd be so boring"

So I was pretty upset as I was called "Boring" practically from my own girlfriend

I'm not sure if spending time with me is boring or just my self.:(

Anyone give an any advice

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invite her to the pics and say you can go to yours afterwards and get a take-away for tea. Atleast then your both out and in the house...

if she says that boring then slap her cos tbh, even id love to play guitar hero with my bf to see if i can beat him lol

if she says anything is boring again say something like "okay, well we'll go to yours and play barbies" XD

Doesn't sound like the 'perfect' girl. Just keep inviting her to things then if it's going nowhere sit down and talk to her about where the relationship is going.

Like I said in the other thread you made, ask her what she wants to do.

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Originally Posted by LuckyPopcorn

I was speaking to girlfriend on MSN last night and we've only been together for just over 3 weeks. I'm 16 and My Girlfriend is 15, everytime when I see her she's always with her mates.

I have nothing against her friends, but I would really like to spend so time with her. But when I asked if she wanted to come around mine she was like "Uhm what could we do". Therefore I was like Watch a film and stuff go on the computer play guitar hero and have dinner at my house.

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Well who wants to be hanging around on the streets???
She's boring if that's all she wants to do.

And when I have a boyfriend that's all we do!!
Lie in bed watch films, eat food and play games and ..... ;)

Just keep asking her to do stuff and if she keeps saying no then she's a lost cause.

I have been thats the thing

And all she does just because I smoke weed too
She's always like like "Lets get a bud" =/

I don't mind it but it's jsut boring after-a-while

Even when I asked for her to go to the cinema she goes "I'll think about it" =/

get her chonged out of her face and then bang her up the wall and then on the kitchen work surface

It's obviously not working out if shes like this with you.
I say dump her.

ask her what she wants to do, it sounds like a good laugh to me. If you were in a decent relationship she'd want to spend time with you anyway thus it's not a good relationship. The question remains kiss or diss? diss!

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Originally Posted by x!candi!x

And when I have a boyfriend that's all we do!!
Lie in bed watch films, eat food and play games and ..... ;)

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That's exactly what my boyfriend and I do, and we have a lot of fun just being in the presence of each other.

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Originally Posted by Leaahh.

It's obviously not working out if shes like this with you.
I say dump her.

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I'm with Leaahh on this one.

She seems way too immature to be in a relationship, she's a lost cause. Let her go and move on, there's plenty more fish in the sea.