Not for me - but go this friend

He wants to know how he can "mix"/become from friends with others ... but he is a loner and afraid of being accepted - though he sees these people often in groups! Can you give me/offer me any tips for him please? Thanks :)

It depends on if your 'friend' is willing to take themselves out of their comfort zone to eventually increase the comfort zone. If others aren't approaching him, he will have to approach them. Basically all he can do is try and have small talk with people here and there until they build up a relationship. Comedy is a good way to get someone to like you. Group work in schools/college can also help break the ice before the comedy is required.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Aiden

It depends on if your 'friend' is willing to take themselves out of their comfort zone to eventually increase the comfort zone. If others aren't approaching him, he will have to approach them. Basically all he can do is try and have small talk with people here and there until they build up a relationship. Comedy is a good way to get someone to like you. Group work in schools/college can also help break the ice before the comedy is required.

---

Interesting advice Aiden - cheers!

Tell him to be himself, let go, be friendly. He doesn't want to jsut throw himself in out of nowhere, but building on relationships really helps. I know his feels.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Ripieno

Tell him to be himself, let go, be friendly. He doesn't want to jsut throw himself in out of nowhere, but building on relationships really helps. I know his feels.

---

Sounds like you and my friend would get on! He so wants to be in the "in crowd" and the (not hard as in hard lads crowd) but chilling and being seen with the respected lads!!!

Is this about habboxforum

find ways to show the uniqueness of your personality, make people smile, don't try too hard.

Yes, your friend needs to open up more to new people and be more social and try not to be introvert, however Im assuming he's introvert since it's hard for him to make friends.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Kyle

Is this about habboxforum

find ways to show the uniqueness of your personality, make people smile, don't try too hard.

---

if this is about habboxforum tell him to be gay 100% and he will fit in

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Becca

if this is about habboxforum tell him to be gay 100% and he will fit in

---

I'm unsure how to take this/what to make of it! Do u mean as in dress or sexuality!

Cos if you are saying the I fee a bit put out for my friends I've made on here - to advice him of this, as what others do s their on afffairs toaly 100% - which in turn makes your reply seem like a "back handed compliment" sorry Becca

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by UnrealGoffEmo

I'm unsure how to take this/what to make of it! Do u mean as in dress or sexuality!

Cos if you are saying the I fee a bit put out for my friends I've made on here - to advice him of this, as what others do s their on afffairs toaly 100% - which in turn makes your reply seem like a "back handed compliment" sorry Becca

---

i can't even make sense of anything you just typed