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Hi. So some of you may know I had a baby 2 years ago called Miley.
Habbox was very supportive & @Yawn; @myles; & @sex; my best friends supported me thoroughly through the rough situation, however recently I posted some pictures of my baby on snapchat and my ex saw them and he's threatening to press charges and take the situation further and do me for "assault". I'm very worried because he's abusive and he would do anything to crawl into Miley's life and after these photos of my baby I'm worried as to what will happen next. He thinks I use her as an experiment and to play with (and to be honest I do) that doesn't mean I don't love her and care for her though.

i'm here for you, i'm sure everything will be fine. X

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Originally Posted by Artpops

i'm here for you, i'm sure everything will be fine. X

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Thank you. The pics were just me and Miley having some fun but could come across "aggressive" although all I was doing in general was spinning her around and now I'm unsure of what lies hes gonna makeup to make sure everything goes his way. I don't even know how he finds these sources of information to be honest.

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Originally Posted by jorgie

Thank you. The pics were just me and Miley having some fun but could come across "aggressive" although all I was doing in general was spinning her around and now I'm unsure of what lies hes gonna makeup to make sure everything goes his way. I don't even know how he finds these sources of information to be honest.

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He won't be capable of much, and I doubt he'll even attempt to do anything to be honest. He seems like a control-freak and you need to avoid adding anyone who could be related or close to him for obvious security reasons.

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Originally Posted by Artpops

He won't be capable of much, and I doubt he'll even attempt to do anything to be honest. He seems like a control-freak and you need to avoid adding anyone who could be related or close to him for obvious security reasons.

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You can never be too sure of the consequence though, he is really obsessive and the only reason I did leave him was because of how abusive and aggressive he was, not only towards me but my unborn child at the time. He doesnt deserve to come near Miley and I would just love to throw a restraining order at him; although that isn't possible I did go for full custody which I'm currently in the process in of making happen as he does have supervised visits with Miley. He's just so dangerous and if it was down to me he wouldn't be allowed near her, but now he's trying to do everything in his power to make me look like a bad mother.

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Originally Posted by jorgie

You can never be too sure of the consequence though, he is really obsessive and the only reason I did leave him was because of how abusive and aggressive he was, not only towards me but my unborn child at the time. He doesnt deserve to come near Miley and I would just love to throw a restraining order at him; although that isn't possible I did go for full custody which I'm currently in the process in of making happen as he does have supervised visits with Miley. He's just so dangerous and if it was down to me he wouldn't be allowed near her, but now he's trying to do everything in his power to make me look like a bad mother.

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Let's pretend like I read that paragraph and move on. TBH I'm sure the baby will be fine if you just leave it at his place for a while. Babies need a male figure in their life otherwise they turn out to become gay or *****. Anyway, I hope you're doing okay.

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Originally Posted by Artpops

Let's pretend like I read that paragraph and move on. TBH I'm sure the baby will be fine if you just leave it at his place for a while. Babies need a male figure in their life otherwise they turn out to become gay or *****. Anyway, I hope you're doing okay.

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I'm feeling much better now thanks, and yeah he does get to see Miley quite often however i do hope that comes to an end soon. You have no idea how aggressive he is and the measures i am willing to exceed to to get all of his custody removed, infact i would remove him off her birth certificate after the abuse he caused me both while I was pregnant, before and even after. It was a luck I got rid of him while I did but here he is back and ready more than ever to fight for his own custody and make bad cases against me.

If there are any incidents, phone the police. Remember harassment is a crime.

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Originally Posted by Zak

If there are any incidents, phone the police. Remember harassment is a crime.

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I already have a case with hm to fight for full custody over my baby however he is finding ways to prove to the court I am a bad mother. I couldn't really find ways to explain that this is true unless he does end up bringing the pictures of snapchat which were purely for fun then I would be able to fight my corners and explain full out he is using his friends to find ways to win the case using false images which do not reflect on any abuse, not like the abuse he showed us.

keep calm and carry on thats my advice and just keep your mouth shut dont say anything to incriminate yourself