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Hey I'd just like to ask if anyone else on this forum has lost somone/ some people who have been close to you, my story I have lost my dad (he died 8 months ago :(), my brother when he was 4 and my grandad before i was born.
I miss them awfully but i have been getting counselling from the Lora center in leicester and westcoates in leicester and it's really helping alot, does anyone else have any experiences like theese?
Thats awful mate ;(Quote:
Originally Posted by snapshot
I lost my gran last Xmas.
I have lost both my grandads and a grandmother, hit me very hard as I was close to them all.
I'm from Leicester aswell.
If you need counselling get in touch with the laura center the people there are genuinely fantastic :)
I found out my grandmother was dying after graduation night, and she passed away just before my final examinations.
Just great timing eh?
aww :( my dad died on my grandmas (his mums) birthday, what a great present eh? :(
Aww Snapshot <3
I lost both of my Grandma and Grandad before I was born, so I never got a chance to meet them or anything :(
I'm sorry to hear about all them. I lost my mum in 1994 through heart cancer and my dad in 2000 to a car crash. My Grandma on my mum's side died in 1992 and my grandfather on my mum's side died in 1970 so I never knew him. I felt suicidal for years on end but my uncle was my lifeline. He took me in, aware of my mentality (after the crash in 2000 which I was a part of). For 3 years I never understood why he died and I didn't. What was really upsetting though was when in 2001 when I was 10 I was going through some of my dads things that he'd left me via the will and I found a letter from my mum to me saying "See you in heaven". I found that upsetting but thanks to my uncle who's done a lot for me over the years, he's given me the will to live and I'm 14 now, 15 in 2 months and as happy as ever, even though pieces of my life are missing. You get over it eventually, but you never feel happy about it. It was my mum's 11 death anniversairy not long ago and that was upsetting too. Anyway I wish you all the best and hope it doesn't affect your life as bad as it did mine. Remember you still have your mum. Hang onto her for as long as possible.Quote:
Originally Posted by snapshot
My mates grandad just died ;[
sorry bout the loss. im from leaicester aswell :)
my nan died 3 years ago, my closest family member, at least i have the memories. :'(
double posted itself
Mates grandma... well thankfully no one close to me has died yet.
Sorry to hear that, R.I.P. I know it hurts when you loose someone close to you. I lost my aunty who i am really close to last Christmas. She died of cancer. Christmas just wasn't the same without her. She was the life and soul of everything. Only 39 aswell.
Aww i'm sorry to hear about all the loses you guys very sad indeed </3 R.I.P.
My grandad (dads dad) died before i was born of lung cancer because he smoked like a chimney and so i never got to see/meet him which is a shame but yeh.
Also my other grandad (mums dad) is very ill at the moment with cancer in three places and this is the 2nd time he's had it and he is very ill and in a lot of pain :'( -sigh.
My nan died last year, October.
My Mums , Mother + father died, her farther finaly died (after hours of pain) on Christmas day and his funeral was on New Years
I lost my uncle in a car crash. :'( He was great. I still have to walk past the place where it happened and there is still dents in the lampost and everything. :'( I lost my great grandma in November. Then my mate lost her Grandad on christmas day whilst they were celebrating. ;o
My grampa died 3 days before my birthday, and was buried on my 12th birthday.Quote:
Originally Posted by BLuweesH
Worse timing.
Wowww...
My hampter died not that long ago.. and my fish
One calls that MURDER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Rosie shushhhhhhhhhhhhh ;(
Anyway
My uncle died August 22nd 05, He was only in his early 30's and I now realise that he was the closet thing ive ever had to dad. That hit me pretty hard and what didnt help was the last words I said to him was " I wish you were dead. " I have sooo many memories its unreal, I know il never ever forget him :)
aww im sorry;[ . My hampster was special, My auntie is hospital does that count?
Aww that's very sad. :( I've lost my Grandmother on my mother's side and my grandfather on my father's side. They died when I was a baby. :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Will
Well I hope everything goes well with your Auntie. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Rosie:
Innit fnx sheis away to new zealand now.. without me ;[Quote:
Originally Posted by Herman
Sorreh to hear about you dad, brother and Grampa :'(
I Thought my mum was going to die :(
She had an Illness Called Cushings and she was worrying tht her operation wouldnt be succsesful (But it was) when I was like 12-13
She's had cancer twice and survived so I don't think she is going to die of an illness like that :)
Well that's very lucky of you. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by stephen-
Naw its not luck, Steph(ens) mum is a super hero :P