Best mate just came out <3

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03-12-2005, 01:50 AM
Bef

Best mate just came out <3

Hey, Im drunken so im proberly rambling....
Nenywho, one of my best mates just came out to me and my other mate's as a lesbian.
Iv kind of thought it for a while but it's still a bit of a shock.
I just said "Im not bothered, face bothered no" Doing my Catherine Tate impression, then i asked what sort of girls she fancied (Kiera Knightly and Alex Parks)
She seemed to think i was taking the peeee but i wasn't.
I love her to bits and i always will. She's still her. I wan't her to know this but I don't want to keep going on about it. I wan't to find her a decent girl, I want her to be happy. How can i let her know i still love her and Im fine with it without going even more ott then i already have.
Btw we are both 16.
I asked her if she is sure and she said the thought of boys has always repulsed her which i kind of noticed.
Nenywho HELP!
03-12-2005, 01:54 AM
mynameishelen!

It's cool that you're cool with it ^_^
03-12-2005, 01:55 AM
stephen-

u did kinda seem to be extracting the urine when you did the whole bothered thing cause using a quote from a sketch show is wise in these kinda situations :S

N e way what do you need help with n e ways?

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Originally Posted by Pink.

It's cool that you're cool with it ^_^

True :D Many would be infact :-p
03-12-2005, 01:59 AM
Bef

Yer, im just drunk, and worried that she thinks i hate her because i was going OTT. I should have just said Ok and left it but i didn't I kept going oooonnn! and i feel rude. I also said something along the lines of that i would be a lesbian myself but i dont like the taste of fish... I should have shut me gob. What do i say when i see her in the morning. Shall i apoligise or shall i just not mention it? All her friends are fine with it and i want her to know that!
03-12-2005, 02:01 AM
mynameishelen!

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Originally Posted by Bef

Yer, im just drunk, and worried that she thinks i hate her because i was going OTT. I should have just said Ok and left it but i didn't I kept going oooonnn! and i feel rude. I also said something along the lines of that i would be a lesbian myself but i dont like the taste of fish... I should have shut me gob. What do i say when i see her in the morning. Shall i apoligise or shall i just not mention it? All her friends are fine with it and i want her to know that!

Lol if she knows ur drunk she'll probably know not to take anything you said seriously :P
03-12-2005, 02:05 AM
Bef

Fingers crossed. I just wish i could have shut my big fat gob. I just need to talk about it you no, get my head round it. In a way i was expecting it but it was also quite a shock.
03-12-2005, 11:35 AM
Embean

It's a great thing that you're mates have discovered their sexuality.
Just remember to stay close to them if they have any problems with anything.
And DON'T fall out with them if they are lesbians/gays.
03-12-2005, 11:42 AM
ChloeDust

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Originally Posted by Embean

It's a great thing that you're mates have discovered their sexuality.
Just remember to stay close to them if they have any problems with anything.
And DON'T fall out with them if they are lesbians/gays.

What she said above ^

It's good that you're cool with it, you must be a good friend ^^ <3
03-12-2005, 01:26 PM
Bef

I am cool with it. I have a weird reaction to things though, I got a nervous laugh anyway but i also make jokes about things when i feel uncomfertable. Iv been trying to ring her to apoligise all morning and shes not awnsering.
It keeps saying my calls been forwarded. Does that mean shes hanging up on me?
03-12-2005, 01:27 PM
thacht

i think u shud jst so sorry and that u luv her and u dnt mind that shes a lesbian and get on with ur life because inside she still a normal person except she fncies girls
03-12-2005, 01:39 PM
Bef

I no that and I want to do that.
I just text her saying...
I am so sorry if i acted like a purick last night. I was drunk. I wasnt taking the pee. Whatever you are, Whatever you do your still you and we all still love you. I wont go on about it anymore. Thankyou for trusting me and remember i will always be here for you Love Bef xx
I no she aint got any cred to text back though and her house phones dead!
03-12-2005, 04:58 PM
louder

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Originally Posted by Bef

Yer, im just drunk, and worried that she thinks i hate her because i was going OTT. I should have just said Ok and left it but i didn't I kept going oooonnn! and i feel rude. I also said something along the lines of that i would be a lesbian myself but i dont like the taste of fish... I should have shut me gob. What do i say when i see her in the morning. Shall i apoligise or shall i just not mention it? All her friends are fine with it and i want her to know that!

Tell her you didn't mean it and your sorry, if she is that much of a freind to you she will accept your appology
03-12-2005, 05:10 PM
Emicat

Ahh alcohol. It gets the better of us at bad times, donit? Just say sorry. She should understand.

Lmao, taste of fish xD.
24-12-2005, 12:06 AM
cheezymoo14

lol u jus sed shes a normal person...except she fancie gyl lmao thts lyk sayin she it normal....if u gt me
24-12-2005, 12:08 AM
cheezymoo14

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Originally Posted by thacht

i think u shud jst so sorry and that u luv her and u dnt mind that shes a lesbian and get on with ur life because inside she still a normal person except she fncies girls

lol u jus sed tht shes normal...except she facnies gyls thts lyk sayi she int normal lmao