k my mom just told me that her and my step-dad are divorcing. i don't know how to go with it cause he's like my real dad and was there since i was born...
have any of your parents divorced? if so what do you do now?
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k my mom just told me that her and my step-dad are divorcing. i don't know how to go with it cause he's like my real dad and was there since i was born...
have any of your parents divorced? if so what do you do now?
Nope but mine were going to, Um look on the bright sides of things, You'll get more presents at xmas and birthdays etc and they'll be happier seperated.
Yup mum and dad did when i was urm 4? i just live with my witch of a mum and i dont like my father x]
tbh that isn't the happier side of it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cassie
the happier side is that if they split they will be happy. I think :s
I said that too. And i suppose you'll be closer to them because you'll see them on their own?Quote:
Originally Posted by Stealth
yuh my parents are divored. nw im living with my mum only. she remarried once but my stepdad passed on. so now shes a single parent.
anyway back on topic, well, my real father is the kind who abuses my mum and us...i was young then..abput 4-5 years old. i cant rly do much coz im still young at that time...
Luckly mine are still together and going strong as far as i know! :)
Mine have split, I knowwhy and I dont really wanna discuss it. But I suppose its for the best Kassie, and your mum and step dad will be happier. You will get to see them when they split.
+ if you ever get down i'm sure your friends will always be there for u?
Mine are divorced. I see my dad every weekend and on special occasions. I live with my mum because she lives closer nto my school and my dad lives in a pub. They are still good mates. And talk, get each other presents.
thing is i dont think im gonna see my step dad again.
You have a right too.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaye
im not sure i want to though.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cassie
Why? You said you've known him since you were born & that he was like your real dad?Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaye
Yeah, But if he's been a total d!ck to her mom then..
Tommo i thought u left ;) and what if he wants to see her and explain?
cause of what hes doing... and he was but hes changedQuote:
Originally Posted by Cassie
mine broke due to my father being married to another woman x/
Aw, Has he tried to explain to you?Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaye
i'm staying on till 3:15 then i'm gone forever.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cassie
he doesnt know i know what he did. my mom just told me this morning when she came back from workQuote:
Originally Posted by Cassie
Hm, If he tries to explain let him? but if they are gettin a divorce then you might have to go to court to see who has custody over you, my bm8s parents are splittin up too and she's goin to court she's real stressed so i think your mates will be there for you and you gotta stay strong and think that your mom will be happier than she is now.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaye
i dont think he can explain this, and my mom has full custody over me cause shes my biological mother and when her and my real dad broke up [i wasnt born yet] she had custody over me then, so yeah.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cassie
My parents need to divorce, but like my mom says she hasnt got the money to buy us a house to live in with her so she says she'll have to stay here till my younger sister is 18 [in 14 years time[
Its horrible here..
It can be very hard for Parents to get divorced. If you have seen them as loving birds for many years and them suddently aparting, it can cause severe depression or temper periods. If you are suffering in anyway Kaye you can contact me. My Mum + Dad announced that they were getting divorced in October. It was nothing big considering they hadn't been very happy over the past few months. I would rather see them happy than being trapped in a fake-love relationship.
My mum left my dad when she was having me about 3 months before
Mine have divorced....but they had to cause they were always at each others throats..so.. it's not very good for me and my bro though (i have a bro and a sis but my mum hates my big sis), it didn't turn out very well.. I see my mum about 4 times a year if I'm lucky..so.. to be honest, it's not the best thing ever.. but sometimes it has to happen.. I try to give my mum another chance.. coz she practically abandoned us but she never ever gives me a chance. She's always too busy doing something else.. like with her boyfriend. He is very ill but still, we are her CHILDREN. She puts him before us A LOT..
Mine have been married 21 years, they're still strong which I'm happy to see...
Mines been married 17 years and still going , they have had there ups and downs but there good :)
My parents got married at 18 and are still together ;D