Why me?

Once again, Bef has guy trouble -sigh-

Well, for a re cap, i finished with Aaron, snog sessioned with Toni, then Toni started slging me off.
I started getting feelings for Craig, tried to stop them, found it hard, had a cuddle with him, went out with him and the boys last night. Cuddled all the boys but didn't get with any of them. Craig was there.
Then some *** who hates me for getting with her ex like a month after she dumped him (Wth?) drives up in the car and starts slging me off to the boys, i was at the other side of the road, all the boys run over, and i could hear them slging me off, including Craig...
One minute hes trying to stick his tounge down my throat...
So i get peed off and walk off, and nobody even bothers to follow me. I self harmed for the first time in ages last night, which is nuts. I just feel like whenever i turn a corner somebody comes round and pushes me back to square one. I feel so helpless. Why dont people realise how there tearing me up inside, its messed up. Im messed up.
Anyway, i cant ignore craig as i have to see the purick every day from 10-2. So what do i do? What would u do?

Umm i would knife that girl k or become a lesbian if i was you eteehee ;P

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Jai' confus.
Maybe spread gossip about them?

It doesn't really help with how many boys you kop of with[in words].

Soon you will get a reputation for being the local bike. Which is not a good thing and I'm not gonna say why you'll get called the local bike[Don't wanna get banned]. You need to wait some time, get your reputation good again and then find a guy that you could settle down with for a bit instead of going off with one of his mates or whatever.

I hope you wanted the truth cos I gave it =]

lol craig. i already have a reputation and iv calmeed down alot. i use to be much worse. btw using on-screen keyoard.

I used to be ''local bike'' :D but for girls. Er, I fixed my problems for sure. I don't have ''things'' anymore etc. I never got called a wh.. since it's probaly typicall for guys to be like I was but it isn't correct. You mes's with too many guys/girls feelings and it's just not right. You cuddle with everybody..kis's them and stuff in my opinion that gives them the right to slg you off. Fix yourself and others will see that and for sure change the opinion.

If you cuddle everyone you raise their hopes then lower them straight away. Not fair on the guys and they will **** you off for it. I'd keep low for a few weeks,not date anyone. And then find a nice guy,not just for sexual purposes or whatever ;) Enjoy their company.

Remember; Interested is Interesting

Thanks Kyle and Craig. I know what u mean and yer I am a flirt but what pees me off is i can hug my female friends. We cuddle in the cold but when I treat male friends the same way i get slged off. Meh. shall i have a go at Craig?

If you honestly like him, for real then no. You gota speak to him and show him you aren't like that.

If you don't give a damn about him, tell him what a ... .. ... he is.

Ekk hmm , i gave the best advice :8

Well it's odd. I don't want to like him. Looks and dress sense wise he aint my type but this week I have really fallen for his personality. Now i heard him slging me off im not sure. I know I cant stop thinking about him though. Aaaahhh.

Um usually that's when love starts. At around 12-15+ people USUALLY only care about looks. Then we grow blabla..become bigger (in many ways :D ye,ye) and you find that personality is really what can keep you next to a person for years. People's look always change but personality can stay the same for years and years ^_^ go to him and say sorry and explain, he'll understand if he won't he's not worth it.

Ok your prob older than me and stuff and I anit good at advice but here goes. What would I do? I'd first off all slap the girl and this guy craig, then like many people say I'd lay low and then after abit find a nice guy that treats you right. My boyfriend isn't the best looking, he isn't popular with the girls but he's nice to me. He's ginger and not well toned but he's nice to me which is why I <3 him :). Sorry if that advice was bad :(

i dunno wota say ^o^

I think you should concetrate on trying to stop self harming, it's a really bad habbit to have. I'm not going to lecture you on it since I used to feel like sh*t when people didn't care about helping the problem, just telling me off for how I dealt with it.

Have a go at him by all means, but explain that you really like him and that you don't want this reputation anymore, that you just want someone, he'll understand if he won't he's not worth it.. *kinder repeating the words of Oh Mighty Kyle.*

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I think you should concetrate on trying to stop self harming, it's a really bad habbit to have. I'm not going to lecture you on it since I used to feel like sh*t when people didn't care about helping the problem, just telling me off for how I dealt with it.

Have a go at him by all means, but explain that you really like him and that you don't want this reputation anymore, that you just want someone, he'll understand if he won't he's not worth it.. *kinder repeating the words of Oh Mighty Kyle.*

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I must agree. I used to self harm and it's hard too stop. You need to stop tho. I haven't sh in about a year but it was very hard at first.

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Well it's odd. I don't want to like him. Looks and dress sense wise he aint my type but this week I have really fallen for his personality. Now i heard him slging me off im not sure. I know I cant stop thinking about him though. Aaaahhh.

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Do you even know how self centred that is.

Mhmmm.

Bef.. umm calm down, you have to sort out who you actually like.. and who you want to kiss and leave o.o

Become a lesbian or move to Japan :8 All the cool kids do it

Try staying with one lad instead of getting off with them all lol? :p

Okay i spoke to Craig reminding him to bring my purse in monday. I also asked him why he slgged me off etc and he says he never and he thought I had alredy gone to the pub with his cousin so he didn't realise i walked off. I will have a talk to him monday. And Craig yeh i know thats self centered but as i said I really like his personality. Meh. Thanks for the advice guys. <3

Don't bother with any of them anymore. If they slg you off and don't bother to follow you home when you walk off alone, then none of them are worth your time :D

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Once again, Bef has guy trouble -sigh-

Well, for a re cap, i finished with Aaron, snog sessioned with Toni, then Toni started slging me off.
I started getting feelings for Craig, tried to stop them, found it hard, had a cuddle with him, went out with him and the boys last night. Cuddled all the boys but didn't get with any of them. Craig was there.
Then some *** who hates me for getting with her ex like a month after she dumped him (Wth?) drives up in the car and starts slging me off to the boys, i was at the other side of the road, all the boys run over, and i could hear them slging me off, including Craig...
One minute hes trying to stick his tounge down my throat...
So i get peed off and walk off, and nobody even bothers to follow me. I self harmed for the first time in ages last night, which is nuts. I just feel like whenever i turn a corner somebody comes round and pushes me back to square one. I feel so helpless. Why dont people realise how there tearing me up inside, its messed up. Im messed up.
Anyway, i cant ignore craig as i have to see the purick every day from 10-2. So what do i do? What would u do?

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sounds like a busy evening :S

Plunge a knife through your heart, please.

I think going off with like too many guys at once is very sad..why not just stick with one!? It can make things so much more easier than falling for everyone you meet :S

Love isn't everything, you deep into it, you get hurt. Theres lots more to life than boys you know ;)

Lol, yeh i no Nekkle, but im a little love tramp. I get bored verrry easily <33

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Lol, yeh i no Nekkle, but im a little love tramp. I get bored verrry easily <33

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Take up golf.

Err, just calm down, no offence, but you do sound like a bit of a man-eater.