Totally ****** off right now!

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12-03-2006, 06:47 PM
Toes

Totally ****ed off right now!

Right, Please read this all or atleast the last 2 paragarghs.

I don't go to a school near my house so i don't know many people around here, but I have one really excellent friend, likes call her Kate. Shes great, so much fun, doesn't mind acting stupid but can also be serious and help you. Now she goes to the high school around here and has met a girl, Nicky. There great friends and Kate never has time for me anymore. Shes always out skating with her or if Nickys away, say at dancing, she would come round for me as a second choice. Kate used to always come on msn and we would chat for hours but now shes on once a week at the most.

So we were out in the snow today and we were out making stuff and throwing stuff for about an hour, it was going great. Until she saw Nicky, she was making an igloo :| and Kate wanted to help her. I don't really like Nicky so I made up an excuse and left.

Later Kate was on msn and we were chatting and being weird, then I said lets go and put juice and syrup on the snow and see what happens and eat it. So she said great and I was really looking forward to me a Kate spending time together, so she came round and everything was going great. We were already on the juice. Until Nicky came round the corner, Kate asked if it was ok asking Nicky to come, of course lied and I kind of got the feeling Nicky didn't like me that much. She was braging and draging us about places and Kate to go places. We were playing with a dog throwing snowballs to it and stuff and she wanted to go. I was getting annoyed now, so we went and I finally gave up, I couldn't stand her anymore. I was being completely left out , so I made up an excuse about being cold and wet and left. They went to her house to play the Game of left or something.

I feel like punching them both and just forgeting about them. But i can't. I can't forget about Kate. She an amazing friend and I know I'm being replaced but look out my window at night and look at her house and realise shes my only real friend. I can't turst anyone in school, I've known them 5 months. None of them are as good as her. I really need your help! Please....

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12-03-2006, 06:51 PM
James!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toes

Right, Please read this all or atleast the last 2 paragarghs.

I don't go to a school near my house so i don't know many people around here, but I have one really excellent friend, likes call her Kate. Shes great, so much fun, doesn't mind acting stupid but can also be serious and help you. Now she goes to the high school around here and has met a girl, Nicky. There great friends and Kate never has time for me anymore. Shes always out skating with her or if Nickys away, say at dancing, she would come round for me as a second choice. Kate used to always come on msn and we would chat for hours but now shes on once a week at the most.

So we were out in the snow today and we were out making stuff and throwing stuff for about an hour, it was going great. Until she saw Nicky, she was making an igloo :| and Kate wanted to help her. I don't really like Nicky so I made up an excuse and left.

Later Kate was on msn and we were chatting and being weird, then I said lets go and put juice and syrup on the snow and see what happens and eat it. So she said great and I was really looking forward to me a Kate spending time together, so she came round and everything was going great. We were already on the juice. Until Nicky came round the corner, Kate asked if it was ok asking Nicky to come, of course lied and I kind of got the feeling Nicky didn't like me that much. She was braging and draging us about places and Kate to go places. We were playing with a dog throwing snowballs to it and stuff and she wanted to go. I was getting annoyed now, so we went and I finally gave up, I couldn't stand her anymore. I was being completely left out , so I made up an excuse about being cold and wet and left. They went to her house to play the Game of left or something.

I feel like punching them both and just forgeting about them. But i can't. I can't forget about Kate. She an amazing friend and I know I'm being replaced but look out my window at night and look at her house and realise shes my only real friend. I can't turst anyone in school, I've known them 5 months. None of them are as good as her. I really need your help! Please....

I thought that said making out and stuff.. :eusa_shif

You should try being friends with Nicky and doing stuff with her.

You could go round Nicky's house and call for her and then go call for Kate.

Hope that helps :eusa_booh
12-03-2006, 06:56 PM
Toes

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miller

I thought that said making out and stuff.. :eusa_shif

You should try being friends with Nicky and doing stuff with her.

You could go round Nicky's house and call for her and then go call for Kate.

Hope that helps :eusa_booh

Nicky's just the sort of person you can't get along with. She just talks about herself, her clothes, her hair, her 'boyfriend' (Who shes actually been going out with for 2 days, now how do you call that a boyfriend?)

Rupsie please take out the extra 2 stars you added. Making it look worse...
12-03-2006, 06:59 PM
Polly-alyssa

I think you should confront Kate, otherwise nothing is going to change, say to her how you feel about Nicky
12-03-2006, 07:00 PM
Craig

Just tell Kate.

Only thing to do.
12-03-2006, 07:01 PM
FullyInsane

First of all .
Talk to your friend , tell her how you feel and how it's hurting you .
Explain that your seriously missing her and your missing out on her around you , tell her you want her to stop dropping you for her friend .

In school , ATTEMPT to get to know a few people , make more friends if possible .
12-03-2006, 07:01 PM
Toes

Quote:

Originally Posted by Polly-alyssa

I think you should confront Kate, otherwise nothing is going to change, say to her how you feel about Nicky

That's what I think I'll do. She has a really short temper though.
12-03-2006, 07:03 PM
JT-Fan

Firstly I think the key to solving this whole situation is talking to Kate. She needs to know how you feel about Nicky. Maybe once she knows the situation might lighten up?
12-03-2006, 07:38 PM
Eye!

talk.talk with kate how you feel and talk with Niky and try to see if you can figure something out and be friends.

Make new friends and keep the old.One is silver, the other is gold :D
12-03-2006, 07:46 PM
Toes

Quote:

Originally Posted by Is-It-Jakel

talk.talk with kate how you feel and talk with Niky and try to see if you can figure something out and be friends.

Make new friends and keep the old.One is silver, the other is gold :D

Ok, what was that silver and gold thing all about?
12-03-2006, 08:21 PM
Many

Erm, im no expert, but tell kate, she'll feel for you...
If shes a good friend she'll understand, and if you explain everything, maybe things will be back to how they were. Maybe do somthing with kate that you havent done for a while... Somthing she will enjoy?
Hope this helps.
12-03-2006, 10:26 PM
Eye!

in otherwords expand your friend circle
12-03-2006, 10:29 PM
dannyboymed

Not everyone can expand their friend circle. I had the same thing happened to me, in a way. My friend got a girlfriend and then he drifted away from me. But I didn't fight it, I gave up on him from the start..
13-03-2006, 08:32 PM
Toes

God, shes on msn right know I dunno weather to tell her how I feel in person or not :'( I think I'll tell her the next time she invites Nicky somewhere.
14-03-2006, 12:22 AM
FullyInsane

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toes

God, shes on msn right know I dunno weather to tell her how I feel in person or not :'( I think I'll tell her the next time she invites Nicky somewhere.

You have to tell her STRAIGHT away !!!

Btw :: are you from scotland :O
15-03-2006, 06:31 PM
Toes

Quote:

Originally Posted by FullyInsane

You have to tell her STRAIGHT away !!!

Btw :: are you from scotland :O

Yes... It's not some alien planet :P