Ok liiitttllee help guys...

Ok so heres the thing,
I really want to ask this girl out but
1.Im afraid of what shed say
2. I dont think that im truely good enough for her
3. I've NEVER had a girlfreind before (I know I know thats lame for a 14 year old..)

I'm really good freinds with her and she knows i fancy her so thats why my brain gives me confidence in the yes factor.

The no factor is:
1. Im not fit
2. Im overweight ( >_> )
3. I have no money to spend on her
4. Im just plain not good enough for her

...Help me internets.

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Try spending more time with her, like go out somewhere at weekends ;P

I do, I go out with her most weekends infact..
Spend alot of time talking to her on the phone and on MSN aswell...

First of all..
LOOKS DON'T MATTER !!!
You can get a girl to know you , and they fall for you !
Don't be TOO friendly , as some girls get too attacted to your friend side . Flirt , see her reaction .

I suggest that you don't try any of the big headed male chovenistic crap . Act yourself .

And.. you don't need money to woow a girl , just be romantic .

14 isn't a lame age. I didn't have my first bf until i was 15!

Thanks FI and I know Gemma its just that mostly everyone in year 9 at my school has had one ¬_¬ Most people in year 8 aswell.

Heh...

Ok.. Lolz

*Screams* LOOKS DONT FIGGEN MATTER!!! YOURE PERSONALITY DOES AND IT SEEMS NICE xDDDDDDDDDDDD

Um... well, talk to her and smile at her. Try and be nice to her, but dont stalk her or be creepy. smile when she says something right in class! This'll be nice! dno... maybe she'll like it if you take a hobby that she does.

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Originally Posted by Dash

Ok so heres the thing,
I really want to ask this girl out but
1.Im afraid of what shed say
2. I dont think that im truely good enough for her
3. I've NEVER had a girlfreind before (I know I know thats lame for a 14 year old..)

I'm really good freinds with her and she knows i fancy her so thats why my brain gives me confidence in the yes factor.

The no factor is:
1. Im not fit
2. Im overweight ( >_> )
3. I have no money to spend on her
4. Im just plain not good enough for her

...Help me internets.

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I take it you mean Daisy?
Well you two seem to get along quite well,
As most people have said, looks don't matter, you don't need money to please someone and you seem like a nice enough person.
How can you say your not good enough for her? The only person to set standards about how good you are, is yourself, and since no one is any better than anyone else you are good enough.
So, go for it (:

Dont Think Your Not Good Enough Because You Probarbly Are. And Trust Me I'd Never Expect A Guy To Spend Heaps Of Money On Me. Just Say Something! I Bet Shes Thinking The Exact Same Thing.
And If You Dont......................
You'll Never Know What Could Have Been.
P.s. You Dont Have To Take My Advice Im Still To Chicken To Ask My Crush Out. For The Same Reasons Also But Thats A Different Story!

I'm overweight and hardly good looking. There was this girl who I sat next to in English, she was really hot, at the time, everything I looked for in a girl. Nice build, long blonde hair, blue eyes etc.

I got her MSN and asked her out on there [corny I know, but I was scared]

She said yes, and we didn't do much for a few weeks. 14 months on, we're still going strong, and she still comes to my house twice a week after school to do.. stuff.

Just try it, and ask her out. It doesn't have to be face to face, but normally that does work!

Ok guys I asked her out yesterday and she was like...Really shocked. She just said "I'll call you later" and legged it off. I walked home really worried about what would happen and she called me later and said yes. So yay lol. Thanks for all your help guys.

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Originally Posted by Dash

Ok so heres the thing,
I really want to ask this girl out but
1.Im afraid of what shed say
2. I dont think that im truely good enough for her
3. I've NEVER had a girlfreind before (I know I know thats lame for a 14 year old..)

I'm really good freinds with her and she knows i fancy her so thats why my brain gives me confidence in the yes factor.

The no factor is:
1. Im not fit
2. Im overweight ( >_> )
3. I have no money to spend on her
4. Im just plain not good enough for her

...Help me internets.

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I have almost the EXACT same problem with a guy I lik, except I am 13....

Congrats Sweetie, Make The Most Of It.

See guys the problem with most relationships is that your afraid of what the boy/girl is going to say and you don't want to make a show of yourself but as many of the people said that if someone falls in love looks or money mean nothing because you have got the person who you wanted...

And if they really love you back they wouldn't care about looks / money etc... :D

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