Opinions on what you would do in this situation. =P
Okay, this is a longish story but I feel I should explain it all so you can give a good opinion. Kinda like the story of how I got with her, but no comments on how we got together, just on what you'd do please.
Okay, so last March I met this girl on Habbo. (Don't assume It was a noobish online relationship, read the whole thing!). We became really close friends over March and April, but then didn't talk at all throughout May, I don't know why we just stopped talking. Then on June 1st she sent a message saying she was leaving Habbo. I told her to come to The Den straight away, we spent from 8am until midnight talking in The Den, only stopping for dinner etc. Pretty much the same the next day (I'd talked her out of leaving.). On June 3rd in the afternoon I randomly asked if she had Messenger as we were getting really close, we added each other talked all day on that and exchnaged pics. Before she went offline we were sitting in The Den and I felt a strange feeling, I'd never believed in online dating before but this was weird, like - I loved this girl. So I told her right before she went offline that I loved her. She said it back, I was pleased. On June 4th we talked all day again and in the afternoon we went into Main Lobby on Habbo and I asked her to go out with me. Even though I was against online dating this felt different. Things between us went well for an online relationship, we grew closer gave each other our phone numbers and talked on the phone alot. In August her best friend in real tried to break us up to fix her up with someone in real but luckily she failed. End of November time she said to me one day in the Skylight Lobby she was getting tired of an online relationship, that it was so hard living so far away from the guy she loved. I admitted I felt the same (Except girl as I'm not gay.). We decided then that we either had to finish what we had or meet up in real, we chose the more dangerous aproach and planned to meet. We planned to meet in January, we eventually decided the date, January the 7th. I was going to get the train down there with a friend of mine, she was going to meet me at the train station with a friend of hers and we'd stay in public places to be safe. On Jan 6th after all train tickets were booked etc my friend cancelled on me, so I had to go alone. I was nervous about meeting someone from on the net alone, but I was determined not to cancel. So I took the 3 and a half hour train ride to where she lives, got off the train and there she stood with her friends. We were both nervous at first both thinking what if he/she doesn't like me. but the day turned out great, after lunch her friend left us alone and we got on so well. It was really hard to say goodbye. After I got home we planned the next meeting for Valentines day (Feb 14th). I missed her so much over those 5 weeks, but finally it came. I went to see her and it went so perfectly, while holding her in my arms I really truly knew I loved this girl. Saying goodbye was harder that time. We me up again on March 3rd, and same story, except I actually cried as my train home was coming in, she hugged me and kissed me and said it wouldn't be long until we saw each other again. She was right, we met again on March 11th. The day went perfectly again, but same thing it was EVEN harder to say goodbye. We're meeting again mid April, and the thing I want to ask for help with is:
It's killing me not being able to see her, I can't move closer to her or like see her every weekend as I'm only 16 and I don't have unlimited cash supply. She's 17 and is in college so she doesn't have a job so she can't really come see me. if it was hurting you not being able to see the person you loved barely once a month, what would you do? I really don't know what to do it seriously does hurt not being able to see her. Do I just carry on like this or what?
