Too Clingy ?

Well , I'm In A Relationship that i don't want to be in , For Many Reasons , and One reason is that i've Been out with him a Few times and it's Not the same , and it's not right , I mean , it's nice to get some attention sometimes but he's Clingy , i walk Home from school with around 9 of my best friends , and theres 4 Boys , And he wont even let them Touch me , or even come near me , i mean , How Clingy is that , your friends can't even come near you. And he Follows Me alot and Touches me alot and it's annoying me , I was on my phone in the park after school one Time and he's staring at me , And he said '' Who are you phoning '' and i said Why and he said '' i just wanna know'' and i said Why , :P , and he said '' Are you always going to be so Secretive '' and i said Yes because it isnt really his Buisness who i'm phoning is it .. and he kept asking and it was really annoying me , and I don't want to do this any more , as i said , attention is Nice , but not so you can't have your own space. Do you lot think he's being abit too Clingy ?

Yes, but I'm exactly the same ^_^

He Is Either Dead Clingy Or Is Dead Ugly And A Moron And Wants To Make Sure He Looks Like He Cares For U Because No1 Else With Have Him.

But If Hes That Clingy Just Dump Him

Yh i think he probably wants someone, he loves you lots that he fears of losing you. But if you're unhappy with the way he is acting you'll have to confront him because if you don't he will carry on acting this way and not know how you feel.

Wow.

God you made me realise I'm clingy.

Thats prob why I can't last in a relationship for more than a few weeks.

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Originally Posted by Polly-alyssa

Yh i think he probably wants someone, he loves you lots that he fears of losing you. But if you're unhappy with the way he is acting you'll have to confront him because if you don't he will carry on acting this way and not know how you feel.

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I agree with that.

And what's wrong with him touching you? Stop being so frigid and accept that that is part of dating someone.

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Originally Posted by Jordan

I agree with that.

And what's wrong with him touching you? Stop being so frigid and accept that that is part of dating someone.

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No Trust me i'm Not Frigid , it's just it's All the Time , and he doesn't let any body else Touch me but Himself.

Overall i'd say hes abit Jelous, but in a way i wouldn't, i think hes like said above that he does not want to loose you to another person. i must say i can get like that sometimes with my current girl friend as she sometimes flirts alot with others in which i do not like ^^.

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Originally Posted by H.bubbly

No Trust me i'm Not Frigid , it's just it's All the Time , and he doesn't let any body else Touch me but Himself.

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Well if another girl touched up your boyfriend you wouldn't be too happy, right?

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Originally Posted by Jordan

Well if another girl touched up your boyfriend you wouldn't be too happy, right?

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mm , Yeah but never call me Frigid , okii .. Because i've Never Been. =|

Patience of a saint :rolleyes:

Your an amazing fighter staying with a guy like this I must say. I'm very protective but that's 10x worse than me. I protect my partner , like my last she was amazingly stunning and obviously a lot of interest in her from others and i'd just like make sure no one bothered her.


I suggest. . .
You dump him.
Let him off lightly, explain your too different and that you wish to not continue the relationship. Make up a slight lie if must be "I need to stick on my school studies" just say "i wanna remain friends cause your a nice guy, just we're too different and it's not working out".

I hope it helps (Y)

hes insecure
and obviously doesnt trust you

He could trust her and just not trust the people she's around. However much she might not want other people trying stuff on with her they'll try (not that she does seem to mind - refer back to her comment about her boyfriend not letting other guys touch her), that's how it goes, and it's not much fun for a guy to have to see his girlfriend getting touched up by other people (unless you're into that kind of thing..).

Yeah its clingy but hes not doing it on purpose, but tell him the truth.

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Originally Posted by H.bubbly

Well , I'm In A Relationship that i don't want to be in , For Many Reasons , and One reason is that i've Been out with him a Few times and it's Not the same , and it's not right , I mean , it's nice to get some attention sometimes but he's Clingy , i walk Home from school with around 9 of my best friends , and theres 4 Boys , And he wont even let them Touch me , or even come near me , i mean , How Clingy is that , your friends can't even come near you. And he Follows Me alot and Touches me alot and it's annoying me , I was on my phone in the park after school one Time and he's staring at me , And he said '' Who are you phoning '' and i said Why and he said '' i just wanna know'' and i said Why , :P , and he said '' Are you always going to be so Secretive '' and i said Yes because it isnt really his Buisness who i'm phoning is it .. and he kept asking and it was really annoying me , and I don't want to do this any more , as i said , attention is Nice , but not so you can't have your own space. Do you lot think he's being abit too Clingy ?

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If he isn't willing to give you your personal space, tell him to back off. He doesn't OWN you.

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Originally Posted by Jordan

Well if another girl touched up your boyfriend you wouldn't be too happy, right?

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I wouldn't be happy if it was someone that liked him as more than a mate....but these are her best mates right? They have probably known her for years. I hug my guy mates all the time...No boy is going to stop me doing that. Im really close to them...and She could be too.

Like another person said, he is scared of losing you. He wants to keep you close and keep you safe so that it shows to other boys that your his and nobody elses. I'd have a chat with him and tell him, you love his company but maybe he could give you a little space, and that you'd prefer it if he didn't touch you all the time. You have the right to talk to other guys and touch them .. and hes probably okay with that but he just doesn't show it, because he wants to keep you. Don't dump him, because theres a chance you'd regret it. Just have a chat with him, confront him on how you feel, followed by a hug and a kiss on the cheek or whatever :P Well thats what I'd do<3 I have a boyfriend, and I hug my boy mates like 24/7. And hes not like that, so if you showed him that you can hug or whatever to your other boy mates, he'd understand that you need your space. <3 Hope I helped, if any of that made sense LOL! x -Emmy.