I Asked my school friend jack out today

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At school today my best friend jack well it was games

And we were playing truth or dare
Nichole asked me too tuch hes :rolleyes:
So he said no but i did (IT FELT NICE xD)

So i texted him saying jack i love you, on hes phone (we both had our phones) So then he came back and he said is this true i said yes
Then i got my friend too ask him out for me and guess what he said

No :(
I Hate myself i want too die i feel so enbarist

So there it is im talking too him on msn i think he hates me x[

i refuseing too come too school tomorow x[

That must of hurt... Sorry to hear it! But don't be embarassed, don't be ashamed, if he was a real friend he'll understand :)

Rejection is such a -insert name for female dog right here-

Man it sucks,perhaps you should try and learn his feelings first? Plus it's always best to tend not to date your friends.

i known him for 3 years and we like the same things

Except men i love them but he doesnt

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Originally Posted by Lettz0rz

No not pricetags

At school today my best friend jack well it was games

And we were playing truth or dare
Nichole asked me too tuch hes :rolleyes:
So he said no but i did (IT FELT NICE xD)

So i texted him saying jack i love you, on hes phone (we both had our phones) So then he came back and he said is this true i said yes
Then i got my friend too ask him out for me and guess what he said

No :(
I Hate myself i want too die i feel so enbarist

So there it is im talking too him on msn i think he hates me x[

i refuseing too come too school tomorow x[

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Aww, it's always hard facing up to rejection.

Since your talking to him on messenger, explain to him you can't help the way you feel but you do have strong feeling's for him and say you'd love it if he could feel the same way. If he isn't gay or just isn't interested you need to respect him, and simply say to him you understand and your fine with it but you hope it hasn't affected your friendship and you hope both of you are still fine.

If he's a true best friend, he'll be fine with it and should just move on forgetting it...

Friend dating is always a bad idea anyway... It always buggers up a decent relationship between two people. My advice: DO NOT LET IT HAPPEN HERE! Make sure that you and him stay friends.

But i love him im crying now x[

"Nichole asked me too tuch hes :rolleyes:
So he said no but i did (IT FELT NICE xD)"

I hope thats not what i think it is.. or your a sex offender :)

Your asking a straight guy to go out with a gay guy. What do you expect? For him to suddently turn gay and you live happly ever after? Sorrybut your just setting yourself for dissappointment..

Just leave him to do his own thing for a bit if hes your true friend he'll get over it.

You've got to go to school though. It's your future.

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Originally Posted by Alterate

Your asking a straight guy to go out with a gay guy. What do you expect? For him to suddently turn gay and you live happly ever after? Sorrybut your just setting yourself for dissappointment..

Just leave him to do his own thing for a bit if hes your true friend he'll get over it.

You've got to go to school though. It's your future.

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*agrees* its hard to turn a guy gay for you. Seriously. And you were too forward. You have to face school though. Just pluck up the courage and go. Whats he gonna do, set fire to you?

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Originally Posted by Persevare

Friend dating is always a bad idea anyway... It always buggers up a decent relationship between two people. My advice: DO NOT LET IT HAPPEN HERE! Make sure that you and him stay friends.

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The truth hurts. You're 100% True though. + rep for good advice. x

If you knew he was straight why bother asking him out?

Why ask him out if he was straight?

I know it stings, first time I asked someone out she was like 'No' and I was like 'Ouch my heart :( '

Arent you like 11?

Edited by Krypsis (Forum Moderator): Please stay on topic.

Ahh the sting of rejection.

You maybe should have though a bit more before you acted.
You just have to laugh it off all you can do really. Sorry if this makes no sence im hyper and feeling sick of white choc chips.. . .

Back on topic time heals most wounds, just appoligise and say that it was out of line and that your expectations were different to his and you will try to accept how he feels

Learn his feeling, tell him how you feel to his face. Don't get your friends to tell him he probs thinks there bs'ing.

And maybe he likes girl, or a bit of both.

What do you expect if hes straight ? Would you go out with a girl just because she loves you , I doubt it , so look at it from his point of view.

i did, if you dont mind

you're all haveing a go at me x[

And im 12 and hes 12

i dont care some people has asked out gays even if there straight O.oo

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Originally Posted by Lettz0rz

No not pricetags

At school today my best friend jack well it was games

And we were playing truth or dare
Nichole asked me too tuch hes :rolleyes:
So he said no but i did (IT FELT NICE xD)

So i texted him saying jack i love you, on hes phone (we both had our phones) So then he came back and he said is this true i said yes
Then i got my friend too ask him out for me and guess what he said

No :(
I Hate myself i want too die i feel so enbarist

So there it is im talking too him on msn i think he hates me x[

i refuseing too come too school tomorow x[

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embaressed**

And you can't take rejection painfully when a gay asking out someone straight, your not going to expect him to say yes :s

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Originally Posted by foxyfox00

Ahh the sting of rejection.

You maybe should have though a bit more before you acted.
You just have to laugh it off all you can do really. Sorry if this makes no sence im hyper and feeling sick of white choc chips.. . .

Back on topic time heals most wounds, just appoligise and say that it was out of line and that your expectations were different to his and you will try to accept how he feels

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Lol yeah whta she said

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Originally Posted by Schweinsteiger

embaressed**

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Embarrassed*

Anywho, on subject - you're 12, you'll face many worse rejections than this in the future, take it as a learning experience: don't place hope in a relationship with a straight man.

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Originally Posted by Lettz0rz

i did, if you dont mind

you're all haveing a go at me x[

And im 12 and hes 12

i dont care some people has asked out gays even if there straight O.oo

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Hes only 12 ? He might not even have sexual feelings for any sex yet , I would atleast wait a few years before your going to ask people out if you don't know if their gay or not till your sure they actually have sexual feelings.

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

Embarrassed*

Anywho, on subject - you're 12, you'll face many worse rejections than this in the future, take it as a learning experience: don't place hope in a relationship with a straight man.

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I feel very embarassed now :p

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

Embarrassed*

Anywho, on subject - you're 12, you'll face many worse rejections than this in the future, take it as a learning experience: don't place hope in a relationship with a straight man.

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+rep. Truth hurts sometimes. :(:(

I wouldn't worry. You're very young. As a gay man, I used to find it hard and a lad I fancied was mean to me when I asked him out about 2 years ago so I slept with his girlfriend and then a month later, he was drunk and I slept with him. Your time will come. Don't feel bad, if he's a real friend he'll 100% understand :) You are who you are and you should be proud.

How am i proud?

I hate myself and all i do its get this question at school everywere

''Are you gay''

What did you expect him to say ?

Rejection is apart of life

i had 2 friends that were supsicous they looked like they wnted eah other so one dya i went round one of there houses (and this was true) adn tehre mm leeet me in i went is zack home she went ye hes up stairs with michael "Watching a film" and i opened teh door ands there they was in bed with eachother NAKED asleep iw as gonan vomit so i pegged it bak to my house went on mns and told my mates what i seen and now there happy together *What i dont get is thta thye boht had girlfriends at the time*
Ell im not gay all i want to sya is you never know what other people are going to turn out like , they could be straight when there young and gay when there older juts wait and watch the time WILL come !! :D

Am I just cruel, or did anybody else find the story kind of funny? o.O

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Originally Posted by will.i.am93

i had 2 friends that were supsicous they looked like they wnted eah other so one dya i went round one of there houses (and this was true) adn tehre mm leeet me in i went is zack home she went ye hes up stairs with michael "Watching a film" and i opened teh door ands there they was in bed with eachother NAKED asleep iw as gonan vomit so i pegged it bak to my house went on mns and told my mates what i seen and now there happy together *What i dont get is thta thye boht had girlfriends at the time*
Ell im not gay all i want to sya is you never know what other people are going to turn out like , they could be straight when there young and gay when there older juts wait and watch the time WILL come !! :D

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See thats why you lose.

And RyanP yeah I sorta do..

Condas darlin youre only 12 (sorry to say that but yano) so you have a lot more troubles in life to face yet, and if he says anything just slap him round the face.. Though tbh if you had told me what you were going to do I coulda predicted him reacting just like that.

Any decent person would say the same thing. Why ask him out if he is straight anyway#?

if hes straight hes not going 2 fancy u but a real m8 would understand and help u nit be rude

maybe its cos u touched him?

That happened to me once... I skipped school for a week <3 But then she said it's okay, we can be friends. x]] So I was happy then.

Even though he rejected you, it's not the end of the world. The world moves on and new people come and go. If he was a true friend he would stick by you. Try to make ammends via messenger. Personaly, I wouldn't ever go out with my best friend, I would go out with a person who is not in any of my classes so it dosen't cause any distruption.

Hope this helps

xx

i asked this girl out on an airplane once who i liked (we where on a school trip) it was the worst 10 mins of my life cause i spent the whole plane ride trying to get my self to ask her out and then she said no were friends now though it hurts at first but it will all work out