What should i do about my ex, It's like a war :o

Me and this boy went out and we broke up I asked him if he felt the same and he said he did. But I found out he still fancies me by his best friend which is in my form. and now he's going around telling people things which arnt true about me at school. So I told the biggest gossipy girls in our year his biggest secret.
So he started doing worse and it's like a war now. But the thing is he's still flirting with me and trying to get my attention all the time, I just ignore him or tell him to go away (not so nicely). He's so weird he says he feels the same about breaking up then does all this. I just want to move on and forget about it, i even wanted to be friends again but he wont drop it, he could'nt just move on and not say anything. What should i do?
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Well, play his game?

You don't have any attachments like he does, he's still interested so just fight back harder and better. If you ever wanna stop it, just tell him "i'll have you humiliated if you don't stop" and if he doesn't. Play his game :)

Here's a hint, the easiest way to humiliating a guy is to comment on his size etc ;) Or, he's a bad kisser or make up stuff like he once peed himself idk?

Just, humiliate him if he doesn't stop?

First of all i wont even have to make anything up lol he is small :D and he can't pull his foreskin back HEHE if al the boys in our year found out they would'nt stop taking the mikey out of him, but i'll leave that to a last resort :D

cheers for all that information 8-)

Urm, well tell everyone unless he stops?
and next time, just say YEA i know tons on him...

Yeah, but i've already threatened him with that i think he does'nt think i'll do it . and i keep getting people coming up to me asking if diferent things are true, even someone in my form keeps pointing at me doing a fake laugh pointing at the boy i went out with and putting his hand over his mouth, it's so annoying.

how old are you 12?

How long were you with him for?
He's being real immature, tell him to sort it out and move on.

no im 14 almost 15 now i was 12 when i started thi account :D XXX

or turn him into a social reject, he'd regret it then.

If i was you, and i'm evil. I'd just really tell everything i know to everyone.

I went out with him for over 3 months, and I could turn him into a social reject and i know because i have a really good rep at school i could ruin his, but thing is about that he knows something really horrible about me, so far he has'nt told anyone at school but if i do do something to bad he might tell people that, No one would be horrible to me about it but i don't want people to know. :l

As its only 3 months this guy is pathetic. Dont stoop to his level, if he carries on attempting to cause crud just laugh in his face and move on with your life. He doesn't sound worth even thinking about. <3

you could always just deny it?

and whats so bad that's not denyable :P

Or she could just say "And what? sort your life out you sad rusty toenail"

lol yah, i guess your right i could just do that, and i can't say whats to bad to be deniable :D XXX

For gods sake.

Do you honestly think that by carrying this on it's going to make matters better? It'll just keep going on and on with each other making up pathetic and silly lies and rumours about each other just to hurt each other.

It surprises me you could even manage to have a relationship for 3 months if you are both acting so immaturely by doing this. Honestly, you need to grow up and start acting maturely and get a grip about this whole situation before it gets out of control.

Speak to him yourself, and explain to him you thought you had ended the relationship on good terms and that you were still wanting to be his friend. Then tell him how you are flattered that he still has feeling's for you, and that you would love to still have a friendship with him and see how things go, but if this nonsense carries on there's going to be no chance of that happening.

Do you honestly want to be doing this for months on end making up more and more stuff? Cause eventually everyone (your friends etc.) in school will just get sick of it and realise your both lying to get one over on the other person, and just not want to hear it anymore - and you will look even more of a laughing stock then.

didn't you just hear what i said on the post before? that i was going to ignore it and say "so what"? plz read all the posts before you reply :)XXX

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Originally Posted by Nia12

didn't you just hear what i said on the post before? that i was going to ignore it and say "so what"? plz read all the posts before you reply :)XXX

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Eh scuse me, I did read every post that was made actually, and all throughout the thread you have been rambling on about the different things you could say about him and how you have a big influence and you could make him with no friends or something, and actually you did not say you were going to ignore and say 'so what' - you only said 'I guess I could do that'.

fair enough :) XXX